Often times it's understanding between both partners. If one desire sex and the other does not. It will likely create a problem because the person who desires it will feel starved. Often people ask to sacrifice, so I ask the question, who should sacrifice?

Should the one who desires it sacrifice and stay starved? Or should the one who holds no desires for sex sacrifice and give in to satisfy his/her partner?

I think the best solution is find someone who will accept things the way you do. I am sexually active and I'll tell a girl from the first day that this journey will involve it. If you don't like my kind of man, then we nip the relationship right in the bud.