Well, I kinda partially agree with you.
I think the best way to make a woman want to be with you is to be a person worth being with. So instead of your points 1 and 2 (see her half as much, call her once for every three times she calls and etc.) I would say - develop yourself, read, be smart, enjoy your job, be kind and confident.

And if the girl still doesn't want to be with you, I guess it's a good thing then.