THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO AFTER A BREAKUP. PART 2. A must read.

Things you should never do after a breakup, part 2. Good day distinguished ladies and gentlemen of this great community. My name remains @jenniferjulius and its so humbling to be able to write you all again. Yesterday I talked about the part 1 of things you should never do immediately after a breakup, so today I will be completing everything on this post today hence I titled my post for today,

1. DON'T REHASH THE PAST.
   Stop expecting closure with your Ex. Some people thinking having sex with their Ex thinking that way they'll get back their sparkles and amend whatever is left of their relationship. Stop hoping things will get better after a breakup, because it might never get better and you will only get inflicted with more pains.

2. DON'T IMMEDIATELY START DATING AGAIN.
   Now some may think this is one of the best means to move on but hell no, its not. And if you really and wholeheartedly loved your Ex, then you're only using that new person to move on from your Ex. Common you don't want to hurt another person just because you're hurt right??? After a breakup, you need to focus on you, your goals, your priorities, and your happiness. You can seek all the distractions in the world by hanging out and not slowing down your social life and hanging out with friends but not immediately dating someone new after breakup.

3. DON'T CUT YOURSELF OFF.
   Just because you're heartbroken doesn't means your world has to stop rotating. Be open to new possibilities both I your career and life as a whole. If you shut yourself off, you'll only end up destroying what you've worked hard on attaining in life.

4. DON'T DRUNK DIAL YOUR EX.
   If you can't handle hiding your caller identity and calling your ex, my dear please delete their number. Do whatever it possibly takes not to fall into this trap.

5. DON'T HOOK UP WITH YOUR EX.
   The truth about breakups us that one party will always suffer the effect more. And if you wish to recover fast, then hooking yo with your Ex is a No No... Don't go there!!!

6. DON'T CLING TO THEIR STUFFS.
   Take away everything that reminds you of them. Its not being childish, it is a means to help you increase your healing and recovering process. Whatever has brought your joy in that relationship will only bring you pain now that you two have pared ways and it will only draw you to your past together.

7. DON'T REVISIT YOUR FAVORITE SPOT.
   Bow please don't get me wrong. I'm not saying you shouldn't go to a place anymore just because that was you and your Ex' favorite spot. I'm simply advising you avoid that place for the now until you can visit that place smile to the past instead of cry and mop like a lost being. Don't specifically go out of your way to seek out a memory that will only hamper your healing.

8. DON'T OUT YOUR FAVORITE SONG ON REPLAY.
   Most couples have songs they listen together either while walking on the road or in he car together while taking a tour or sometht. Some play this songs when they wanna get super romantic with each other, when they wish to dance or relax. Out of all the songs in the world,why will you choose to hurt yourself by seeking dead memories out of the longs you two play when you were sailing together on your love boat? You will only worsen the issue for yourself.

9. DON'T STAY ANGRY.
   Whether it was you or our Ex who start whatsoever quarrel, fight or conversation that led to the breakup, you can stay mad at yourself forever you know because what's been done has been done. Accept the breakup and try to move on, you still have roles to okay in life remember.

10. DON'T WASTE TIME WANDERING WHAT THEY'RE UP TO.
    They're are not your enemies no doubt, I mean even the bible said pray for your enemies. So even if you now hate them and consider them no longer friends, don't get yourself concerned about what their next step is by secreting checking their pages on social media.

I'm not a relationship therapist or expert. I'm just one crazy young Lady who is a big fan of Love. Love comes with lots of ups and downs, breakups and makeups but then some relationship is broken beyond repairs hence my reason for this post both the part 1 and part 2. Out these into practice and tell others about it too by resteeming this post.

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