5 Regretful Mistakes Women Make When Choosing a Husband

Mistakes are an inevitable part of life, and an area women always seem to make mistake is choosing the right spouse.
Choosing a life partner isn't that easy and one needs to be very careful. That decision comes with a lot of details.
You are about to choose someone who would be your parenting partner and have positive influence on your children, eating pal, gist partner and travel companion.

If you make a mistake and don't choose carefully, you'll end up tolerating marriage rather than enjoying it. Some see marriage as a means to an end and rush into it for the wrong reasons such as loneliness, peer pressure, financial difficulties and other reasons.
In a long run, they will live with regrets and wish they had not gotten married.
Here are six(6) common mistakes women make when choosing a husband:

(1) CHOOSING BECAUSE OF OUTWARD APPEARANCE

Many ladies want to marry a Mr. TMH(Tall Muscular and Handsome) and they despise any man who doesn't fall in this category. They forget that looks fade. A man might be good looking but with an evil heart. Would you still be able to find this man attractive after he added weight and his looks fade?
Don't marry because of outward appearance!

Many ladies want to marry a Mr. TMH(Tall Muscular and Handsome) and they despise any man who doesn't fall in this category. They forget that looks fade. A man might be good looking but with an evil heart. Would you still be able to find this man attractive after he added weight and his looks fade?
Don't marry because of outward appearance!

(2) CHOOSING BECAUSE OF MONEY

I believe this is the most common reason some women get into marriage.
Determined to have the "good life", she marries the first rich man that approaches her. Money is good, no doubt! And everyone wants the good life, but choosing a live partner out of the love for his money can create more problems for you than you ever expected. You might have all the money in the world and still be frustrated. By the time he starts acting up on you and showing you the bitter side of his character, you will regret ever getting married to him. By the way, what happens when he stops having money or the money goes away? This is life and one can never be fully prepared for the future. Anything can happen.
Don't choose a husband because of his money!

(3) CHOOSING OUT OF SYMPATHY

You should never get married out of pity. No matter how you try to make the relationship work, it always has a way of failing in the end. Do not think you are doing any man a favour by marrying him. Why sympathize to the extent of trading away your life, peace and joy?
Don't choose a husband out of sympathy!

(4) CHOOSING OUT OF DESPERATION

This happens in every nation of the world today. Women in their 30s 40s feel they are growing old and running out of options, so they settle for whatever man that comes their way. Such rash judgement can prove disastrous. Not taking time to fully understand the type of man could make you regret in the end.
Don't choose a husband out of desperation!

(5) CHOOSING BECAUSE OF SEX

You chose a husband because he is good in bed and can satisfy all your sexual needs and later on, you realise that there are other needs he comes short of. As soon as you begin to have babies it becomes clear to you that the marriage isn't all about his sexual capabilities anymore. You get sad when he fails to meet the needs of the children like meets your sexual needs.
Don't choose a husband out of your sexual interest!

Many have made the mistake of choosing the wrong partner and are still living with the consequences. Some have rushed in and rushed out, and some have lost their lives trying to pretend to the world that they have a happy marriage.
Don't be one of them!

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