I used to ask myself, "How do I know if I really love someone?"
My husband taught me how.
Since we started out dating, he told me he got no Facebook. Of course I believed him because I never thought someone would lie about it. When we go on dates and long travels or even short vacations, he doesn't check his phone.
Would you think he has someone else? I don't think so.
On our 7th month, my best friend asked me to accompany her in an internet shop.
While waiting for her, it crossed my mind to search for his name on Google and well, no Facebook account showed up under his real name.
But - on TOP 3 results, there was this ALIAS and when I clicked it, it routed me to a very private Facebook Account. I doubted if it was his, because it got no public photos. I went over the ABOUT section and the relationship status was public and IT'S IN A RELATIONSHIP! I checked out the girl's account and I was able to confirm it was his girlfriend because of the public posts with his face on it.
I went out crying and weeping. People were looking at me like crazy.
I confronted him about it....
You can tell me I was too dumb not to figure things out earlier,
but it was all because I was TOO TRUSTING.