What is the relationship between youth in a relationship? Physical relationship can not be the main issue. Everyone has to be past. Now if I have a girlfriend in the past, if she has a girlfriend in the past, and if she kissing the girl, has a physical relationship, then what will I do? Shall i forgive him? Or will you give up? Or will I start to forget about the past?
The suggestion that you gave him gave a great suggestion. In fact, our mentality should be such.
If I was in my place, I would have started my life with a forgiving person who could forgive me. But it was right that I used to suffer much from the mind, I could never forget it.
If you don't mind, what would you do if you used to personally face this problem?
I understood the situations to be like this:
You have a boyfriend and you saw him kissing his ex-girlfriend, right? And you are asking what to do?
This is not about dealing with the past. This is very much the present
There's nothing to debate here. Say good-bye and move on with your life. If your boyfriend kisses another girl, against the norms of your relationship (could be [polyamory] (https://steemit.com/advice/@nomad-magus/i-fancy-a-guy-that-i-met-have-i-stopped-loving-my-boyfriend-some-words-about-polyamory), then he clearly made the choice: "I don't want to be with you; I am choosing another one".
you are right.this is not about dealing with the past. i continue my present. forget my past. i visit your link & read the advice. its too good. now i am feeling better.
yes i told my past, i forget you & now i move on my life.