A man that other women are fucking is not desirable to a woman who is focusing on being able to raise a family and family values.

You are speaking to the hindbrain of the woman, and focusing on animalism. Did we develop big brains for nothing?

We can leverage this animalism to some extent but we also have to contend with competition from other humans with big brains and more productively organized cultures. War and economic defeat may extinct those who prioritize animalism over productivity. Then again, we need some of our animalism to diversify the gene pool. So life is a complex mix, but I am appalled that you tried to shame all women into unmitigated addictive decadence. No wonder you won't tell us your real name.