Nice post @flipstar. I think there are a good portion of us that join for the same reasons you did. We try to upvote good content regardless if they follow us or not. We try to keep things in more of a supportive role. The money is a good incentive, but most of us know it's not an overnight thing.

As for the people that are attracted to the 'steemit is shit' post. I think they're mainly upset they haven't made the money they expected in the time frame the expected. I read a post from someone the other day who has been on the platform for 10 days. He complained that he hasn't had a single post go over a $1. I've been here since December and I've only had 2 posts go over $1. Since they are not getting what their expectation is the only thing left t do is complain. Which in turn attracts more negative personalities.

I think the only thing that bothers me is the people that blatantly plagiarize their posts or just post a picture and they do get the rewards. I try to find good subject matter and plan it out. I just feel lost in the sea. Eventually as I get better, it will come.

My favorite thing though is as you mentioned. The people you get to interact with. I've met some amazing people so far and can't wait to get to know them better.