Emotions
depressed
hurt
angry
frustrated
anxious
ashamed
guilty....
Thoughts
Negative, self-critical: I'm so stupid, I'm worthless, It's my
failure, I'm not good enough, I'm incompetent.
Unhelpful Thinking Habits might include
Mental Filter, Mind Reading, Self Blame, Internal Critic, Compare & Despair,
Shoulds and Musts, Black and White Thinking
Behaviours
try to please others
get defensive when we believe we're being criticised
under-achieve or work harder to compensate and cover up our
incompetence
shy and passive around others
avoid situations and people
neglect or abuse ourselves
Surely, steemit impacts different people differently no matter the the gender, age or skin color