What bugs me?

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I am an introvert.

To open up my feelings or get out of my comfort zone takes a while, sometimes, more than a year. But it's reasonable because I don’t easily get furious, irritated or annoyed. But when I do RIP to one who pissed me off. Occasionally, people, I cherish control my sentiments I know I should not be allowing them to do that but don’t worry it's under control and supervision.

To be candid, if I can list things that disturb me and my companions are gonna alter their judgments towards me after skimming through the list. I would not mind writing explicit paragraphs or giving rightful examples. But I am well aware that my friends are not gonna waste their precious time reading my list.

There are extremely few things that bother me. My Family and my friends now have realised them and try to forgo them. Most of the time I try to ignore things if they bother me but then everything has its boundaries and if the boundaries are extended then the individual better run off.

Let me just get started with things that annoy me.

Firstly, I believe that “Communication is the key to solving a misunderstanding”. So whenever I try to clarify my point of view to get rid of the misunderstanding sometimes my opinions are not accepted because people presume that I am angry. This bugs me because instead of clearing the misunderstanding, people just attempt to distract the conversation by saying “why are you angry?” “calm down!!”. It’s petty and it’s stupid and it annoys the piss out of me.

Just because I understand that “Communication is the key to solving a misunderstanding” doesn’t allow anyone to have a baseless discussion with me. People that like to argue for no reason or have unsupported arguments without evidence! People that shout to prove their point and convince themselves that they are correct!! Sometimes, I manage to not say a word so that my statements don’t damage anyone's feelings but as I told you earlier everything has its boundaries and by now you know what they should be doing.

One more thing that bothers me is when someone is needy for attention. I respect everyone and generally try to be there in their highs and lows but at times when they ask me distinct questions “do you need me?”, “if you don’t want to talk let me know”, "I know I am a bad person", “I know you got new friends” and many more. In addition to this People who can’t move on from a break-up and keep cribbing. I don’t mind giving attention because I feel that attention is part of affection but not in these circumstances. I am there when you prefer being around me but please keep me away from these issues I feel uncomfortable!

These are the only things that I can't avoid even though I try my best to avoid them. There are times when I ignore situations that can bother me like I find some memes on my phone and I try to show them to my friend (the phone is in my hand), My friend snatches the phone, Laughs at the picture and start swiping their thumb. To be honest I am blessed with remarkable people in my life. Perhaps, that can be one of the explanations why I hardly get annoyed. Even if I get angry it stays for a few hours.

Here and there I get angry; sometimes it's just impossible for me to ignore but eventually, I realised that getting angry over silly things is waste of time instead I express my viewpoints and this has helped to become a better person.

This was one of the topics by @galenkp, but I waited to write on this today as it wasn't part of the challenge. Just liked the topic so wanted to write on it!