i see myself as a person fullnof empathy , especially when i started yo become a full time mom, havung experienced the sacrifices and hardships you would always see yourself on others' shoes or you would have a deeper understanding and will be sensitive on what they're going through. And you will really appreciate even small things.
Now regarding that statement , if you walk on someone else's shoes , then you've taken your shoes , i believe it would depend on what the situation is , if for example you'll empathise with a friend who has been left buy his or her partner , ut would be okay to understand what she feels and give your advices , but if you'll gonna tell your friend to have revenge to his or her ex , because you also feel the pain of your friend and if revenge was done it'll both make you feel better , then maybe that would be the bad side of empathy.
Glad to have your post miss Abi , was kinda late again , I pray and hope that you guys are okay there now after the fire , glad to have read that no lives were taken , Praise GOD 🙏 hope you always have a great time , God bless you more and more and thanks always sooo much for your support , much love from us , hug tight! 😘❤️❤️❤️
Hello my dear @zephalexia :)
The comment you left me here today does not surprise me! I remember you once said you feel quite affected by what you watch sad news on tv etc... it is, without a doubt, important to find a balance when it comes to empathy. I believe we have to look after ourselves first. After all, how can we even help others? Don't you agree?
The example you shared here about supporting a friend who is hurting after a break up, but refusing to take part in vindictive actions illustrates an important sense of morality. Further, it is also a lesson that we shouldn't be selective towards who we are emphatic towards :)
Thank you for your kind, loving words.
You take good care of yourself! ❤️ :)