I think...if you're trying to prove a point...to be victorious and win...it's nothing but ego. No need to prove a point. No need to win. Because life isn't meant to be won. It isn't a win/lose scenario. Simply extend a hand and give assistance. Share your experience. It's all we need to do. Everyone is on their own path to discovery and they will get to the destination in their own time. At least that's what I think.