Thanks for sharing. It was great to read your post. I agree with you on almost all points. A good psychologist does not want to see you in a dependency relationship, but shows you your personal patterns. In Germany, licensed psychologists with health insurance approval tend to be overcrowded and there are long waiting times. And to the patterns: Often we only live in repetition - only when we recognize and consciously live these patterns can they dissolve. Thank you and good evening