Fear of success. Why are not all the goals achieved?

That's why many of you, stop believing in your goals, just at the moment when there was very little left to the goal, it would seem, a little effort and here it is, the goal is achieved! Success is, first of all, a way to achieve the set goals, when you get recognition from your activities.

And it happens that a person tends to this, but if he is not sure and his psyche is not ready to become successful, he will definitely have something to stop. And he may not think about it, but the reason for not achieving his goals is a fear of success.

For example, you want to become a politician or an actor. At first, your dream may seem very attractive to you - the attention of the fans, power, money, recognition ... But when a new life begins, you already see it from the other side.

Work is almost without days off, constant trips or meetings, responsibility, reproaches from the family ... It starts to frighten. There is an inner fear of this success and the person no longer reaches the intended goal. Although at first he sincerely wanted it.

Often, when you move towards a goal, you have fears and doubts. Do I really want to change my life at such a price? What other people will think about me? But what if this success is not for long? What's next? What if I fail?

It also happens that a person does not notice this fear in himself, but try to understand yourself and you will understand what really hinders you. Do you ever have such a thing that you abandon your business in the middle of the road?

Success only worsens your relationship with relatives and people close to you? Do not you always want and do not like to take responsibility? Do you feel uncomfortable when you are praised? Do you think that you yourself will spoil everything? If so, then you urgently need to get rid of this inner fear of success.

How does it relate to success?
Yes, this is really a problem that needs to be acknowledged. Try to determine the cause, perhaps some qualities of your character enough to change, so that it relates to success more confidently. Do not be afraid of your mistakes.

Remember that on the way to the goal they are inevitable. It is better to think about how many positive qualities you already have. And develop them further. The more you are confident in yourself, the less fears he has, including fear of success.

Do you know what can help you in this situation? I was always helped by a good book, yes it was the book! Find for yourself the very book you wanted to read long ago, yes, that time was not enough, then you forgot about it!