Yup, shit things DO happen. And a shit sandwich doesn't become a cream puff, just because you keep calling it one. It's still a shit sandwich.
You raise a really interesting point there... specifically, I don't remember "M" celebrating her successes. It was more like she took them for granted... like "that's how it's supposed to be." Gonna have to go away and think a bit more about that...
yeah, it was a new thought that just came to me...interesting though....