I couldn't agree more.
We each decide: will I latch onto others' Truth and create accordingly or will I develop my own sense of Truth and create accordingly?
Both ways are equally valid an experience, yet the former will embark on the path of victimhood, eventually putting the blame on others for our misery. "I didn't want that in the first place" will then be our directive, while the latter will go the path of Self-responsibility, knowing that the external is merely a reflection of our internal.
Thank you for these well-written lines! :)
Yup, blame others for blindly following them and lead ourselves to our own suffering through ignorance and loyalty. Being responsible to lead our way of verifying truth is how we know we are grounded.