Oh, Marriages between ruminators can result in emotional individual and marital struggle! And you are correct, harboring negative feelings lead to not only mental illness, but also physical illness. There is enough evidence to support out there!

I am very pleased to hear you are a non-ruminator @ikchris. consider yourself a privileged man!

All the best to you.
Thank you for taking the time to participate in this debate. I appreciate it very much :)