Oh, @cthkrn ... I can see you are the sort of person who has so much kindness in your heart! Your comments are always so positive and insightful. They are also very smart and add important points to whatever discussion we are having here.
Today, you have touched on something that I find particularly important. You said:
Actually now I am happier being single
People, sometimes, feel so pressured to be in a relationship that they forget that having a boyfriend or girlfriend is not the solution for everything. Like you said, achieving happiness, in many cases, can indeed be a decision we make! And now we even have scientific evidence to support this claim :)
Isn't that just simply wonderful and empowerful?
All the best to you always!
Thank you very much for what you have said, I really think the same about you.
And yes, happiness itself should never depend on someone else, sometimes those people in search of a solution only bring many problems to their lives, because they are not prepared for a relationship, because when you have not learned to love yourself and value yourself , how do you do it with others?
And those are the words .. WONDERFUL AND POWERFUL!
The best for you and yours, have a nice and blessed weekend.