As a psychology addict I thought it was about time I discussed addiction here on my blog. I believe this is a pertinent topic because addictions of all kinds seem to permeate society in a very tangible way. Among my family and close friends – a relatively small group of people - there are a couple of workaholics, a smoker, a shopaholic and a handful presenting IAD (internet addiction disorder).
Now, I am sure you noticed that other than nicotine I mostly included on my list non-chemical related addictions; and that is because it is now understood that some behaviours like gambling, affect dopaminergic neurons in the same way that drugs such as cocaine do 1.
For this reason I fail to comprehend why the DSM addresses addiction mostly in terms of substances 2. Anyway, just in case you want to know what is required for someone to be formally diagnosed as an addict, here are the criteria they need to meet within one year-period, with a minimum of three out of the following seven:
Oh dear, if I replace the word substance by Steemit it looks like I am on my way to become a Steemit addict! As of late, I most definitely have been meeting criteria C, D and E give it another few months, it’s official! 😳
But, let’s explore tolerance and withdrawal a little further, because the other criteria are pretty self-explanatory.
Tolerance & Withdrawal
The DSM, unsurprisingly, links the term tolerance to drug-use only, and defines it as the necessity of larger and larger quantities of a substance in order to reach the desired effect. Nevertheless, research has demonstrated that sex addicts experience similar needs as to obtain the same degrees of high they once did 3. And the reason I point this out is just to highlight how some behavioral addictions are overlooked, and sometime, even mocked by society in general. When, in reality, they bring the same emotional distress and life disruption some drug-addictions do.
Here is what Professor Ryan says in his autobiography Secret Life.
My personality was formed around it [sexual addiction]. All of my talents, all my good qualities as a human being, were devoted to serving it, and I was willing to sacrifice anything to it.
Further, similarly to substance-addictions, addictive behaviours bring about feelings of a better psychological state. For example, the act of going to the shopping mall and purchasing goods often lifts anxious and depressive feelings. Sooo …. ? Well, this triggers expectations of revisiting such emotional states in the future, therefore motivating people to repeat the behaviour again and again.
What is more, those who try to quit addictive behaviours also undergo similar withdrawal symptoms (e.g. irritability, stress, anxiety) just like the individuals trying to cease the use of certain addictive substances. Unfortunately, this is something that sooner than later pushes them to go back to the high-street, to the casino or to watching adult movies, in other words, they relapse.
Next I am going to talk about some of the factors that make some people initiate such behaviours and activities.
What drives people to addictions?
As I always highlight in our discussions, it is very important to take into account the biopsychosocial model whenever the conversation turns to mental well-being. Naturally, when the topic is addiction the first of the three factors that springs to mind is the social one. Particularly when it refers to substances; but, this is because they always seem to take place within a context (very much like gambling) that has physical and social aspects that ultimately motivates the individual irrespective of whether he or she is alone or with a group of friends.
And guess what I have to illustrate this! An experiment with animals 😊 this week it will be with rats, though. This is an animal model that demonstrates how the environment and, to a point, psychological states may drive individuals to resort to opiates.
Social Factors
Here, Alexander and Hadaway assembled an entire social setting where some rats could enjoy ‘wealth’ and companionship with other members. While in another different setting, the less fortunate rodents were placed in small individual cages. Predictably, the ‘wealthy’ rats only took a small fraction of the substance when compared to the amount taken by the isolated, lonely ones 4. Providing, therefore, an insight into the role hopelessness and isolation play into motivating humans to initiate (and, perhaps, maintain) addictions to either a certain drug or behavior.
Psychological Factors
Within the context of addiction stress becomes a tricky subject, because it can work first, as what drives people to engage with addictive behaviours and substances - as when we mentioned previously that people will experience a better emotional state after a shopping-spree. And second, it can also be the reason why some people will relapse. This is because it is truly hard to say ‘no’ to temptations when feeling stressed 5.
What is important to note here, above all, is that the majority of people who adopt an addictive behaviour or substance-use seem to do it in order to be able to cope with problems. Well, this is something I see in my husband’s step-mother, who takes ‘retail-therapy’ after a stressful week 🙊
But, of course, there is way more to addiction than the factors that drive individuals to it. This is a scenario that involves factors that cause the person to maintain it as much as a reality where individual differences should be considered.
Making sense of Addiction
In order to make sense of why certain individuals resort to such strategies in order to deal with problems, some models have been developed. These are models to understand addiction. I am going to discuss them here very briefly.
The mesolimbic pathway, sometimes referred to as the reward pathway, is a dopaminergic pathway in the brain.
Disease Models of Addiction
These are biomedical perspectives to understanding why some people become addicted and others don’t. As such, their main focuses aren’t on the environment or psychological aspects that might drive someone to engage with drug use, or gambling, for example.
Through this lens, addiction is interpreted as a ‘disease’ and not as a choice as it was previously perceived up to when these models came along. The advantage these sorts of views bring is that they don’t blame the person. In this scenario addiction is not seen as a type of character weakness; which is something that allows the individual to focus better on rehabilitation, as it leaves no room for guilt.
The susceptibility model
Proposes that genetic determinants may influence several behaviours that will either increase or decrease the chances of a person becoming and addict. Of course, no one single gene is said to be responsible for this influence; instead there are several genes that in the social and environmental context contribute to the relevant behaviour. This model goes as far as to propose that such genetic contributors even play a part in prompting novelty-seeking behaviour.
The Incentive Sensitisation Model
A neurobiological model. This model mostly suggests that addiction unfolds because the individual desires the object of addiction (alcohol or shopping) more and more as time goes by, as a consequence of the sensitisation of the mesolimbocortical pathway. This is due to changes the addicted’s brain undergoes as a result of the repeated exposure to the drug or behaviour, which triggers compulsion and, finally, addiction.
Psychological Models of Addiction
In order to address the significant psychological factors that influences individuals to resort to addictive behaviours (factors that were left aside by the biomedical models), psychologists felt compelled to elaborate models of addiction too. And while they may sometimes oppose to the disease models, it is very helpful to see them rather as complementary.
A Rational Choice Model of Addiction
Yes, we are about to discuss addiction here as a result of a rational choice. And before your jaw drops, just try to put yourself in the shoes of the addicted individual. Also, keep in mind that we are not talking about making the*right* choice. It might be difficult for you to understand why someone would choose to develop any sort of addiction. Nevertheless, the rationale behind it might be that through adopting certain substances or behaviour the benefits brought about might actually outweighs the costs. As in some cases where people’s lives sometimes are even worse without their addiction.
Addiction as a Cognitive Bias
A cognitive bias is a mistake in reasoning, evaluating, remembering, or other cognitive process, often occurring as a result of holding onto one's preferences and beliefs regardless of contrary information.
This is the most widely known psychological model of addiction and posits that the addicted person focus on, and selectively memorises certain information about their addiction as a result of their attention and memory processes. Consequently, this leads them to biased beliefs that impair sensible judgement towards drugs and certain behaviours 6.
So, returning to the complexity of addiction, whenever evaluating any of these models more in-depth the important questions to ask are:
Does it explain things such as how addiction is initiated and maintained?
Does it explain features such as tolerance or withdrawal?
Does it regard individual differences such as personality?
And, ultimately, can it predict suitable treatments?
Still, even in a more in-depth exploration of the models listed above you will find that some of them are more successful than others in answering these questions. Indeed, some won’t even deliver an answer to certain questions.
The incentive sensitisation model is, perhaps, the most popular one among mental-health professionals; this is due to its large evidence base, and because it satisfactorily answers all the questions above.
Reflection
Whenever I watch documentaries on drug addiction, or come across people living with any sort of addiction I cannot help but link their situation to anxiety, sadness and stress. If you remember well, these are emotional states that we have mentioned here when discussing what might drive people into addiction, or indeed, what causes them to relapse. New types of addictions like gaming, food and even internet addiction spring up as a means of escapism and distraction. From what? One might ask. Well, life is busy and overwhelming. I, for instance, have a good life. Yet, it feels quite stressful at times. And just as I am writing this, I recalled an interesting comment I received not long ago on my post Discussing misconceptions about psychology, where the reader asked me the following:
Has stress not existed in humans forever or have we been cultivating an environment that is more and more stressful?
This was my reply to this reader, which I decided to share with you all in an attempt to make sense of our increasingly addicted society.
Yes, and stress is one of the very components on our biology that has allowed us to thrive as a species! However, the notion that Biological Psychologists put forward is that although culturally humans have come a long way from their ancestors, the timespan of a few ten thousands of years is not sufficient to allow the biological evolution that modern life demands from our species. In other words, our brains and emotional systems are still pretty much the same from back in the day when our species lived in small kin-groups as hunters/ gatherers.
[Original Content by Abigail Dantes - 2018]
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DSM-IV Substance Dependence Criteria
DiClemente, C. (2003) Addiction and change: How addictions develop and addicted people recover, New York, Guilford Press
Opiate addiction: The case for an adaptive orientation.
Ryan, M. (1996) Secret Life: An autobiography, London, Bloomsburry.
The neurobiology of pathological gambling and drug addiction: an overview and new findings
The Ultimate High: Sexual Addiction and the Bug Chasing Phenomeno
Image sources – Pixabay.com & Wikipedia: 1,2,3,4.
Dear Reader,
Thank you so much for taking the time to read another one of my long, long posts 😊
Today, I would like to inform you all that for the next two months I will be posting every other Friday, because life has got really busy at my end 😌
As always, I wish to each one of you only the best in life. Have a wonderful weekend :)
Abigail.
Hello my Dear Friend, so glad you are posting about addiction, as I do believe it to be the cause or basis for so many underlying problems. Coping with life is learned or taught to us by parents, teachers, mentors, etc. Today so many young people are isolated, abused, left to bring up other siblings that Indeed addiction may be a choice they make to cope with their set of circumstances.In this case the underlying problem must be dealt with and coping skills learned before real change can take place.
In physical addiction the blood brain barrier has been broken making the addict more susceptible to the affects of the drug or alcohol ingested. I can’t see this happening with internet, porn, shopping, etc. but yes crack, cocaine , alcohol, heroin, and mind altering chemicals. This is way more difficult as the drug or alcohol have so much power over the physical body, constantly calling the addict back for another high.
This topic is so big in my opinion that most other frailties of the mind can revolve around it and become spontaneous off shoots of the addiction. The study of the brain and the organic malfunctions are in my opinion very slight by comparison to what can happen with an addict.
In conclusion, I am so sad that your new hours for posting will only be every other Friday. I missed you so much when you were moving, and will miss you more knowing you have been too busy to share with us. Much Love to you my friend. 🐓🐓
Thank you so much for this beautiful comment my dear, dear friend @mother2chicks. I was looking forward to hearing your thoughts about this post as I know you have great knowledge on this subject. I couldn’t agree more with what you said about the upbringing of children nowadays as one of the causes that drives them to subtance use or addictive behaviours. We live in an overwhelming world!
From a neuropsychological perspective this topic is as interesting as it is complex, in my opinion.
I am sorry to hear you feel sad about me posting less! My work load will diminish in a couple of months, and I will be back on posting weekly 😊 Your always kind and loving words are truly motivating my dear. Thank you so much for always delivering so much love.
Lots of love to you and all the best ❤️🌷
Take care :)
I like your post, so big and, to tell you the truth, a lot of useful information that opens your eyes to what's happening in the world, at the moment, addiction grows more and more, and how to fight it or who does not know the main thing is that it is beneficial to people's hands who for this are not small money, and the families of so-called drug addicts suffer as always and all their lives are tormented by their relative or son. Thank you for the post, dear friend, I support your post
thanks you
Oh my god, how can i ever get your attention with so many intelligent comments? Can man be addicted to ununderstandable psychological knowledge? I definitely pass the 5 conditions on more than 5 "substances". Although i really can not classify you as a substance. Just wanted to say hello, hope all is well, tons of love.
@bubke 😍 How great to see you here! You will always have my attention ....your comments always make me smile, but this one made me laugh out loud! Ahahahahahah
Everything is well over here :) and I hope it is with you and your beautiful family too 😘
Lots and lots of love :)
Hello Abby,
By now you have probably noticed that I'm very bad at timekeeping. This is not to suggest that I show up for appointments late. Rather it is to insist that whenever I can postpone an event, I tend to do so and this tendency increases with the importance of the event and the absence of a suitable time line thereof.
Addiction, addiction! I'm seated with a bottle of coke, finally relaxed enough to read your post. I had to put off reading it until this moment because I know that I would be unable to finish it if I didn't find a suitable time. Speaking of addiction, the closest thing I have to an addiction is Coca-Cola. A not-so-distant second is the Internet. I have been able to deal with my impending addiction to coke by deliberately refusing to drink it for a specified period of time. The idea was to see if I would totally forget to drink Coca-Cola as I used to at the end of the period. In every case, I have ended up realising that was never really addicted to coke because I do not suffer withdrawal and I do not have a high tolerance for it. However, it could be argued that whenever I have a choice between Coca-Cola and any other drink, I often choose Coca-Cola so in a sense, it is denying me the time I would have spent drinking something else:).
Concerning my addiction to the Internet, there has not been much I could do about it since I have been on Steemit. I discovered my Internet Addiction Disorder when I travelled to another city and my smart phone crashed around 7:00 pm in the night. I was restless throughout the night. I kept dreaming about different scenarios that would lead to my phone being restored back order. None of those scenarios was actualized. After that night, I made it a point to live without connecting to the Internet. Now, steemit would not let me do that anymore.
Even though, I do not plan everything like you do, I still like to have control. Addiction, in my opinion, limits an individual's ability to stay in control to a very large extent. This is why I avoid any behaviour or substance that lead to my addition. So, while I agree that addiction could be biological, it could also be as a result of choice.
I think that the incentive sensitization model explains how most addictions are developed.
It is nice to see you this week, Abby. I know that two weeks seems long but I'm also aware that if you don't take that lost, you won't be able to complete you posts.
Thank you for making it as interesting as always. I wish you the very best.
Ha! Coca-cola addiction, huh? By the way, this is an awesome photo you shared here. You have so many talents my dear @churchboy :) Now I am worried about your health because of all that sugar! Let's see if we can change that! Shall we? :) I am already jumping to the conclusion that your Coca-Cola addiction fits within the Rational Choice Model. Well, this is definitely the case of another good friend of mine who repeatedly tells me his life is much better with Coca Cola 😒
Our widespread internet addiction worries me because of one reason that I discussed with another reader here. We live in a world where behavioral addictions seem to be the norm; for example: internet, shopping, processed food and so forth ... So, we end up being pressured to follow a very unhealthy norm! Then we start to experience mental distress because of it, like with the example of when your smartphone crashed! For me that is a case of nomophobia, and just in case you haven't heard of it, here is a quick definition:
I am so pleased to hear you consciously avoid behaviours and substances that could possibily lead to addiction. I suppose this is partly because of your personality! Either way, having this sort of awereness definitely puts you in advantage. So, let's see if we can start reducing the intake of coca-cola! 😉
Thank you for stopping by once again my dear, your support is invaluable!
All the best to you always. Lots of love :*
Dear Abby, you know I would quit coke for you :)
Yes I think that my coke addiction fits with the Rational Choice Model too. Whatever model it is, I am confident that it is an addiction I can kick. For one thing it is messing with my figure:)
We have all been so excited around here: my brother's wife had a baby boy!
I hope that your work will allow you do posts once in two weeks as you promised.
I don't need to know psychology to posit that you are an awesome human being. I knew that this reply would be here even before I came to check. My failure to reply immediately was no failure at all. I figured we have two weeks with which to talk to each other here so I didn't want to rush.
Thank you for your kindness. Being here does not feel like support: it feels love. I wish you and your family all the best and a little bit of warmth from Nigeria ❤️
There was a time i was so addicted to gambling. I made myself believe that was the only way i could make money, even if i had very little i would still gamble.
I finally overcame last year when i concluded i cannot win and would never win. I would like to believe the whole addiction is all about the psychology and philosophy of your mind. The moment you overcome that the moment you get free of addiction.
I hear gaming addiction is now a disease that people could get rehabilitated for. Its kind of weird because you really have to force this gaming kids to literally hate you from separating them from their video games. But i guess. It is what it is the world is moving and everything has to be broken loose from.
Thanks for this amazing post Abigail its fun reading them.
Congratulations on getting clear of that addiction. It takes a lot for our minds to step back and say, "This isn't working. I'm not going to do it anymore." I think this is where mindfulness and noticing how we are feeling in the moment can come into play - no pun intended . Coming to that decision ("it's not working") can do wonders for overcoming the social and habitual draw that keeps people stuck. Thanks for sharing your experience. I think it could help someone in a similar position.
This leads me to believe you are a very rational person @adetola and that your addiction to gambling could not be explained though the Cognitive bias model. However, the way you appear to make sense of addiction fits very withing the psychological framework, and it goes had-in-had with how the Rational Choice Model explains it :)
Thank you for taking the time to read and leave a comment!
All the best to you. I am pleased to hear you managed to overcome your gambling addiction :)
Your words are very good, very complete,
good friend is very sensible of you to recognize that the addiction is exceeded and even when you can earn little or much
Being A SteemStem Member
Thank you @steemstem 😍
The way DSM addresses addiction (focus on substances, negligence of behavior) reminds me of the way traditionalists address psychology (focus on treating the consequences, negligence of positive psychology). Of course, it's not directly comparable, but both are short-sighted in quite a similar way.
Poor little isolated rodents. 😢 I emphasize with them a lot since I recognize myself in them. The emotional states of social anxiety, overall sadness and stressful life have led to my addiction, which fulfills criteria B, C, and E in a very TANGable way. Not that I mind my addition, since I consider it one of the best examples of a rational addiction choice! 😎
Although you've written it in a positive tone, the reply to your reader's comment brings a grim conclusion: since the technology and culture are progressing exponentially fast, our biological evolution will lag behind more and more, which will cause more and more stress in human lives.
From now on, every other Friday is my favorite day of the Steemit two-week. 🍷
Are you the sweetest person on this platform or what? You were the only one to acknowledge the lonely rats! Ohhh...
I am laughing so hard at this:
Not only are you so sweet, but you are incredibly witty!! 😂
The analogy you made with the DSM and traditional psychology is a painful but accurate one. We seem to live in a world that searches for cure, rather than prevention. And, yes, I do think we are at risk of becoming more and more mentally distressed as a race, for the very reasons you pointed out here. Every 5 years the DSM launches a new revised edition, and the number of mental disorders only increase.
Not everyone is smart enough to allocate some time for dancing @lifenbeauty 😊
All the best to you my dear :)
Interesting blog as always dear! Youre always consistent in fascinating us with your very intelligent posts. I truly agree that addiction will always be associated with stress,anxiety and sadness. Because every negative result will always stem from negative causes. Addiction in any sort will be destructive to people physically and psychologically.
By the way dear. This actually made me sad because I always look forward to hear from you every friday:
But I always wish for you to be successful in life because you deserve it! Just do not forget to eat your meals and take some vitamins to boost your energy for your busy schedules. 💕💕💕 All the best for you dear. @abigail-dantes
Dear @sakura1012 💕
It will be just for a couple of months until the demands of my offline life ease a bit! 😅 Thank you very much for your thoughtful words. I am looking after myself. Although, you are right, I think I would benefit from some vitamins :D
Lots of love to you always.
You take care too!! :)
Youre always welcome 😚
Interesting topic doctor @abigail-dantes, they say there that you do not know what an addiction is until you live it or you have an addicted relative that causes problems. In my particular case the only addiction I had to fight with was the cigarette and my habit of reading constantly, which was making my vision worse. But in the particular case of addicts to drugs and alcohol I have seen two types of recovery, those who have done it with psychological help and which goes through several phases and those who have recovered believing in Jesus Christ as their savior, regardless of If you are a believer or not, the truth is that with globalization and the search for rights, the use of drugs has been legalized, which motivates these addicts to look for an increasingly stronger one. I was recently in Colombia and it is sad to see a society where their youth is being lost due to drug addictions where they begin to consume cannabis from an early age and then they need something stronger and so they end up living on the street little by little. realize. Regards Dra, excellent post as always
Please @senteno77 I am not a doctor! 😊 Even if I had a PhD. I wouldn't like you to call me doctor! Call me Abigail! :)
I am glad to hear you managed to stop smoking cigarettes. Addiction to reading? This just makes me think of how susceptible we all are to compulsions. I found very sad what you said about the young Colombians. I still don't know what to think about the legalization of cannabis.
Thank you for stopping by once again @senteno77
I hope everything is fine with your family!
All the best to you always.
As somebody actually prone to some forms or addiction, I found this post to be quite interesting. Trying to look inward into my own experiences, I feel the best framework for me to understand it would be a combination between susceptibility and cognitive bias.
Hello @rocking-dave. It is great to see you here :) I am happy to hear you found this post interesting! I am a firm believer of combining both biomedical and psychological models to make sense of addictions.
Thank you very much for taking the time to read and comment!
All the best to you.
Thank you and all the best to you too :)
Another excellent read of standout quality Abigail.
You'll notice I pop up from time to time on your page with a comment, and this subject is one I cannot avoid, a bit like an addiction I guess.
I've struggled for many years with addiction, some good, some certainly bad. If I gain an interest in something, I seem to fall deeper and deeper in 'love', and my thoughts are overwhelmed with this particular craze.
Collecting stamps
Computer games
girlfriends
drinking
smoking
exercise
marijuana
internet chatting
Steemit
I'll throw my heart and brain into 'subjects', losing much of what is around me during this time.
I understand that too much of something, even if it is perceived as a good thing, is not healthy, but even with understanding I'm still likely to repeat the same process.
You can probably guess what the current addition is. However, I will leave the computer alone for a few hours now and head outside for a bit of balance.
Thanks for the space here to write.
Asher
Hello Dear @abh12345 :)
It is my absolute pleasure to have your always interesting comments! I was pleased to read your understanding towards the fact that nothing is good in excess. As I don't feel particularly comfortable with the belief of 'good addiction'. But, after reading your entire comment I now know what you meant by that.
I know a couple of people like that too. My personal view on this topic is that we all seem to be prone to addictions, not to the same degree. This is when I resort to the biomedical models as they highlight genetic predispositions while also taking into account individual differences such as personality types!
So glad to hear you were going to have a break from the computer for a few hours!
I wish you a wonderful weekend and all the best always.
Hi @abigail-dantes
I'm really sorry I didn't respond to your message. I remember reading it, and then.. well I don't know what happened, apologies.
Would it be possible for you to explain this part of your reply a little more, I suppose I should activate google search :)
I remembered this post because of another I caught up on today, and have pointed him over here too :)
Thank you, and apologies for not getting back to you earlier.
Asher
You have nothing to apologise for 😊 Thank you for taking the time and for being always so thoughtful. I am going to check that other post right now :)
Dear Abigail, we are truly BLESSED to have you on steemit. Your posts are always awakening and enlightening!!! Thank you really! My avatar (a.k.a. your other "whole LOL) approves!!!
PS. Luckily, I didn't have any serious addictions in my life so far, except one case....a woman. She was my girlfriend for 14 months. I was DANGEROUSLY addicted to her for the last 6 of them. Through her I can understand how severe an addiction can be for someone. Reason and logic lose any value when you are addicted to something or someone (in my case).
@tkappa, my other - cartoon - half! 😍 It is always nice to see you here.
I feel humbled by your kind words :) Thank you for contributing to this discussion with your addiction experience. I have a friend who became addicted to a man, who sadly never accepted the position of her boyfriend. This whole experience lasted nearly 2 years, and it took place over 15 years ago. It was very distressful and disrupting for everyone. When he finally told her they no longer could see each other, I virtually moved in with her as she fell physically ill. The way you concluded your comment reminds me very much of her behaviour back then, because she seemed to have lost all reason and logic!
I wish you a great weekend. Take care :)
Hi @abigail-dantes! I can name a few addictive behaviours with emotional and psychological components:
Food
psychic lines
OCD
Self harm
I agree with you, stress is the underlying factor in all addicts behaviour. it's like we try to compensate for the void left by rejection and pain and then what do we do, we play out our pain by engaging in costly behaviours i.e gambling, substance misuse etc. A silent and overt way of showing the world how we're feeling without using words to do so. Peace.
Hello Dear @fiercewarrior :)
It is always wonderful reading your opinion about the topics we discuss here. Your last sentence is so touching! Gosh ... you're good with words!
I find truly interesting that you pointed out OCD as a form of addiction here. There are a few points I would like to add to that :)
Both the obsessive compulsive behaviour and the addictive behaviour are a type of escapism, like fear of contamination or loneliness, respectively. Nevertheless, there is a key distinction between the obsessive compulsive individual and the addict, which can be found at the root of what drives them to conduct certain actions.
OCD involves the need to escape from something aversive, while addiction is to do with the search for positive reinforcements.
Either way, in both cases the individual is 'owed' by the rituals, behaviours or substance.
All the best to you always my dear :)
@abigail-dantes, thank you, I'm so humbled. Peace.
Another try to break out of criteria D? ;-)
Seriously now, I believe we all have small addictions, little habits that initially make us happy, but without which we "can't live" anymore after a short period of time.
Only when those start to consume so much time and energy that other - actually more important - activities/duties are neglected, we should start actively counteracting, because the we might have a problem.
And steemit qualifies for a drug, I fear... I experience the same.
😂 Ahahahahaha
It is all because of the positive reinforcement!Yes! It cannot become clinical.
I wish you a great weekend @sco
:)
I really like your discussion here, particularly of the non-drug types of addiction. My husband and I have talked many times about how his dabbling in crypto currency could be really dangerous - It IS gambling! And now, here I am spending lots of time on Steemit (but at least I've cut down on Facebook time, right?). We've set limits on the investments, but we're always looking at what's happening in the market. It's pretty comical.
I've read about the rats before - poor things. So interesting - and people kind of respond in the same way. Isn't it much easier to recover from addiction when you have/find a supportive, loving community?
Thanks and I'll look forward to your posts every 2 weeks. Cheers!
Hello @orangina.
Thank you for stopping by once again :) My husband and I have have had the same conversation about trading cryptos too! He is definitely living with IAD, which has considerably worsen after this whole 'cryptomania' :/ And you are right! Love and emotional support is the best way to help someone to overcome any sort of addiction.
By the way, how is Ulysse? I just popped into your blog and saw his last master pieces 😍
I wish a wonderful weekend to you and to your family!
Best :)
Ulysse is great! It's impressive that you remember him :-) He just wrote a book today! Thanks for taking the time to reply. Have a lovely weekend too!
He is a little genius! 😊
Ulysse is great! It's impressive that you remember him :-) He just wrote a book today! Thanks for taking the time to reply. Have a lovely weekend too!
I looked forward to this Friday, and it's not just because I have an epic TGIF planned...
Looool. Aren't we all?
I tried to analyse my addiction to steemit and classify. I realised that it was either
or
Please allow me to unleash my inner psychologist!
I totally agree that addiction could be caused by prolonged negative emotional states or an attempt to distract oneself from the not-so-wonderful environment.
Growing up in Nigeria, I was just a typical teenager addicted to her cell phone, but my mother didn't understand why.
She tried to talk and convince me to interact more with humans. One time, she said:
While this got me irritated at the time, when I look back now, she was probably right. My transition into adulthood came with its fair share of growing pains. I felt I was misunderstood a lot and I went into my shell; becoming a very introverted teenager in reality and a virtual social butterfly, and honestly, I preferred my virtual world.
My point is: addiction is not idiopathic, really. So if it has a cause, it has a cure.
Thanks for you lovely educative post. I can't believe it's now "See you in two weeks"
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It tells something about you and your mother that you remember what she said. It made me smile.
I once said something similar to my son. Also, I added that I actually can understand why the virtual world is more attractive to him than the real one. Sometimes I think that because we are still "cave-people" and not coping with the pace of modernity that we might miss something hard to name. I am deliberately exaggerating but I agree with Abigail on that.
From my point of view, addiction has its cause in wanting pain relief. Once the pain is gone the addiction might be gone with it. I think my society actually moves within a certain amount of pain & so addictions are there to give a way out of pain.
Do you know Gabor Maté? He is a Canadian doctor who talks a lot about addiction. It's sometimes also a "pain" listening to him :-)
Have a good night, day or morning.
P.S. Are you still located in Nigeria?
I couldn't agree more, but I don't think the addiction goes with the causative pain. The pain is like a matchstick that ignites the addiction and so even when the pain fizzles out, we could be left with a pointless addiction.
Lol, I do not know Maté but I will look him up ASAP
It's actually night here and yes, I'm still in Nigeria.
Take care ❤
I would like to answer with a question:
Have you ever had the experience of feeling fully content? Like staying in a situation and wishing for nothing more and nothing less?
I had this experience, but only on very very rare occasions. As I perceive a great suffering in the world, I would say that one fizzling out pain is replaced by another one setting in and being painless (either mentally or physically) is a state of being rare to find. That may sound pessimistic, I prefer to call it realistic :)
Addiction can either be pointless or a strategy to cope with pain. ... Actually, .... I would say every addiction points to something deeper. It is not the cause of pain in the first place, only a symptom to express and deal with it.
Does your mother still live?
You too, take care.
Hello @the.chiomz :)
It is great to see you here again!
It seems like your mother is a very sensible woman! I would love to hear that more mothers encourage their children in the same way. Unfortunately, what I used to hear is quite the opposite. Some parents actually prefer that their teenagers remain in the house at their computer desks; because it brings them peace of mind in relation to where the kids are and what they are doing!
I love the point you raised here about addiction not being idiopathic. So right! There isn't a single sort of addiction that develops overnight. The behaviour becomes slowly more and more compulsive until it is sustained in spite of the negative consequences!
Thank you for taking the time to contribute to this debate.
Have a wonderful weekend :)
It's always good to hear from you! 😊 @abigail-dantes
Well, my mother likes everything in moderation, I think that's a good deal.
Thanks for going through my long comment.
Have a great weekend as well :D
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Nice article. According to me, a person can never be without any addiction is what I feel. Choosing the right addiction is what we will have to do. People with serious addictions to drugs, alcohol or cigarettes can divert their mind to a different type of addiction that is healthy for them. Some good addictions are music, running, books etc.
I would like to share something that came to my mind after reading the article. One if my office colleague had a serious addiction to cigarettes and non vegetarian food. Consuming non vegetarian food may not look like addiction but he had it in different level where he reached a state where he started to think that he can never survive without meat. Every meal that he had, had meat in it. The mental stress that he had because of this made him think that he was addicted to meat. Same with smoking as well. He smoked a LOT of cigarettes per day. His body was also becoming bulky.
I don't know what happened to him but suddenly he turned his lifestyle completely. All he did was running. He decided to reduce his weight, regulate eating, quit smoking, no non-veg food, etc. Every day morning he will wake up by 5 am and start running. Around 20 kms for more than 2 hours. Nothing in mind but fully focused. If he is not comfortable and stressed out he will again start running in the evening. He skipped his dinner and chose to take only healthy food. All he did was running running running.
We saw him transforming and within a months time he became lean like a 20 year old boy. All his tummy gone. It's been more than a year now. He is still following the same strategy. It was absolutely possible for him to get out of all his addictions. He even turned out to be a pure positive person. He also gives good advice to people about his persistency.
From then on, for all addiction related problems I always remember the above incident and keep myself positive always.
Thanks for the article @abigail-dantes. It helped me think about some minute aspects related to addiction.
Hi Miss Abigail , good evening from Philippines, how are you? Hope all is well 😘.
You are right , addiction is a very timely topic , and i totally agree with you that it's not just substance addiction but more behavioral addiction is arising
But before i go ahead , upon reading the first part of your blog, actually the title , my mind already told me that i will confess on my steemit addiction, then by reading it i just laughed when you mention the steemit addicition , whichi think i am into as well , same as you letters C, D and E , hahahaha. you know that before meeting steemit i will actually sleep10 pm but after meeting steemit oh no! i lack sleep so much , and sometimes even i told myself like, say for example , ok since i have posted a blog already commented on others and done so much i will need to turm off my internet on the phone and just do the chores first and finished it , but sometimes it's like my hand got a magnet on my phone i really can't help but check steemit and everything about it from time to time , actually dont know anything or any new updatws about facebook now hahahaha. really, i am convinced that i am steemit addict
In regards to substance addiction , i may say that my partner belong to that group of addicts, cigarette addiction , he is smoking even before i met him , since he's college , i am not sure if it has something to do with what you mentioned about genes , because his father is smoking to up until now 60 years old plus . but really i want him to stop , but i think he's into addiction as cognitive bias , because whenever he wants to stop or i ask him or his mother he will say if he stops it will be hard for his body to adjust, but i think that's a wrong belief of him, he actually tried to stop actual cigarette stick but instead use e-cigarette , i was so happy beacuse it's like he only use that once in a day, but then after a month he came back to cigarette. i pray and hope he would sto p it for his and our health , but maybe that's his way of removinf stress or whatever but still no good for me , he ia also addict to mobile games, oh no!!! hahaha so much
But as for myself only internet addict now because of steemit , so much !!n hahaha, hope i get cured LOL
But as my own reflection addiction can really be because some wants to escape to the reality of life's problem , it can also because of peer pressure, or just because they have aelf satisfactionand enjoyment for having a specific addiction , but for whatever it is , i think it will be all mind over matter , you're still in control .
Thanks for sharing another fruitful blog miss abigail and of course i qanna alwaya thank you for continuous support , we love you so much and will continue to support you
Stay beautiful from inside out , God bless you more
Much love from me and the minis 😘❤️❤️❤️
PS: I am actually waiting maybe in your future post you would have a picture of you so i can see you , or maybe a travel blog or tour on your place , but the real intention is for me to see you
Good night from PH 😘❤️❤️❤️
My dear @zephalexia
You always impress me with how much you learn from the publications on my blog! You are such a smart young woman :) Yes, behavioural addiction is not so talked about, is it? But, t is important to discuss it because as long as we are aware of it we can prevent things getting out of control. Like the time spent on Steemit!! 😂 It really triggers compulsion, doesn’t it? It is all the positive reinforcement!!
You said something very interesting here ‘ we may be addicted because of peer pressure ‘. Only yesterday I was discussing this topic with my husband and we concluded that we now live in a world where certain forms of addiction have actually become the norm! Like shopping, using smartphones etc...
I am sorry to hear about your husbands addiction to cigarette. There is a member of my family in the same situation. It can be very frustrating. But, your husband seem to have tried once through giving e-cigarretes a go. Maybe in the future he will be stronger in his attempt! I wish him good luck with that :)
Thank you for always supporting my work too with your incredible comments and attention. It really makes the effort I put in researching and writing worthwhile ❤️. As for writing about my personal life... uuuummm .... interesting .... maybe one day when I get to work less and take that holiday I told you I have been thinking about 😎
Lots and lots to you and to the cute minies!!!
Good night from Portugal 😴
hi miss abi, good morning from PH
Thanks again for reaponding to me 😘
yeah i hope one day , maybe once the minis can talk to their dad, i'll ask them to tell him to stop smoking haha
And yea hope you'll have your deserved vacation, go push with that , hehe
You're always welcome , i always love to visit your blog and read and comprehend with it , i always havesomething to relate with your blogs hehe
Thanks as always miss @abigail dantes ,
Stay as beautiful as you are
More power and Godbless you more and your family
mich love from me and the minis and my sister @avhyaceulip 😘❤️❤️❤️
miss @abigail-dantes , thank you always so much for your support, super duper thank you!!! i love you!!! we love you so much , my sister @avhyaceulip has so much happiness too whenever you support us, thank you if i can only hug you
take care always, good evening from PH 😘❤️❤️❤️
interesting ..
For me .. addiction is caused by the lack of goal
Great post ..Well done
:-) So you are meeting your almost addiction to Steemit and lessen your presence on the blockchain?
I understand, why. It really is time-consuming and I wonder whether I should follow you in that. It also got me on the hook. I am hoping for spring & summer when I will feel the next wave of me urging to leave the house and enjoy the outside world.
What I found interesting is what you said about the rational choice and that an addiction sometimes outweighs what harm it may cause. Yes, I can approve of that. I am addicted to hearing sounds of humans when I go to bed. As I live in a noisy city and have otherwise difficulties to fall asleep the voices of my "movie friends" lull me to sleep. It also may be that this reminds me being in the lap of my family (we were many).
Since I rationally admitted to myself that I chose this way of falling into sleep my guilt that I shouldn't do that, vanished.
Have a good weekend,
sincerley
Erika
Hello my dear @erh.germany :)
I am glad you found the Rational Choice Model of Addiction an interesting one. It is controversial indeed, but I think it is mostly for those who are unable to put themselves in the position of the addict. Your need for hearing sounds of humans when you go to bed fascinates me as much as the explanation for it :D
I wish you a lovely Saturday.
All the best to you and to your family :)
Nice article. Addiction is such a terrible killer of time, money, relationship and ultimately life. Its terrible when one gets addicted to something or even someone (obsession). And most people i have heard talk only focus on the chemical addiction without considering the fact that persistent acting in a certain way could be addiction creeping up.
Fighting addiction isn't a simple and easy thing to do but God can definitely help one overcome it if he or she actually wants to be cure of it.
people can overcome addiction if they make up their mind and do the necessary things that is needed to over come it.
This is a beautiful comment @yomarve :) I was particularly drawn to this part:
I see this all the time, and what amazes me the most is the fact that now we live in a world where certain behavioural addictions have actually become the norm (e.g. checking phone, excessive shopping)!
Thank you for taking the time to comment :)
Best.
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Good day dear Abigail. I just read this, I came to mind a person very close to me, has a cigarette addiction, has a nice family, knows that addiction is terrible because he had a case close, and happened what the boxes of cigarette indicate ... And yet he does not quit that addiction, he smokes up to two boxes of cigarettes a day, it's crazy, and he really worries me, he's very close to a baby and he's turning her into a passive smoker.
Why, in spite of that experience, does he not leave the addiction?
Why is not he able to see that besides hurting himself he harms others as well?
Hello @luisateresa :)
Nicotine addiction is a tricky one. I have a family member who just won't quit. He has tried many time, but in times of distress he always ends up smoking again. It is a shame!
As for the questions you asked, I believe the first one could be answered by the incentive sensitization model, which states that some pathways in his brain have been modified (the one in the picture above), therefore causing him to want his cigarettes more and more.
The second question can be answered through the cognitive bias model, which states that he has basically a mistaken capacity of reasoning his addiction.
All the best to you my dear :)
I hope your friend can see things clearly and manage to stop smoking!
I have to stop praising your blogs lest I get addicted to it. If I am ever diagnosed for any addiction, it has to be internet/social media :). However, I think I have two questions:
Have ever tried to imagine that addiction could be forced?
Is there a clear distinction between addiction and obsession?
Kudos to you, as always.
I wouldlove your experties on those questions.
Hello my dear @gentleshaid :)
It is so nice seeing your comments on my post. I know how busy you are; so, please let me just let you know how much I appreciate you taking the time to write down some nice, encouraging words for me and also take part in the discussion :)
I am curious about your first query; addiction being forced ... this is something I discussed not long ago with a professor. We brought this topic up when we were addressing the increasing number of food addicts in our society. Then, the food industry topic came up and the rest you know ....
As for the difference between obsession and addiction (what a great question). Despite the fact that they look similar "from outside". There is indeed a distinction between them.
In addiction - the individual is necessarily seeking pleasure. Therefore, engaging in activities, behavior and habits that bring them pleasure. For example, smoking, gambling, shopping.
Obsession - is more to do with a compulsion that drives the individual to do something that, sometimes, is not necessarily satisfying or pleasurable. For example, in obsessive behavior when people have a compulsion to washing their hands, although this brings them a certain level of relief, it is not necessarily pleasurable. Some people with this disorder, even experience pain when washing their hands because they have done it so many time it has damaged their skin. Yet, they cannot control the compulsion.
I hope this has helped you :)
Lots of love to you :*
Saludos mi bella amiga @abigail-dantes.
Siempre ansiosa en la espera de sus escritos, muy interesante tema y le quisiera contar una anécdota que marco mi vida para siempre.
A la edad de 17 años inicie mi carrera universitaria, donde pude conocer variedad de personas; pero entre tantos, una persona en particular me hizo ver muchas cosas de la vida que hoy día sigo teniendo presente. Conocí un muchacho, muy hermoso, bastante varonil, pero con pasar el tiempo la confianza crecía y la amistad por consecuencia iba aumentando, yo notaba a simple vista que había un comportamiento en el un poco distinto y un día lo enfrente y le pregunte que si necesitaba contarme algo, el un poco apenado pero armado de valor me dijo que era homosexual (ojo estamos hablando de una persona de 17 años igual que yo), yo bastante extrañada ya que el siempre trataba de verse muy varonil en todos los aspectos, empece a preguntarle por sus padres y que lo llevo a el a esa situación.
Aquí fue donde pude entender porque todo esto, su padre era alcohólico y su madre una adicta a los casinos, contaba con un solo hermano y este era también homosexual trayendo como consecuencia que este amigo mio fue abusado a la edad de 7 años ya que por los vicios de sus padres nunca estuvieron pendientes de cuidar de el.
A través de todo esto pude entender que las adicciones eran el escape para estos padres, donde el papá no aceptaba que sus 2 únicos hijos fueran homosexuales y su esposa no lo atendía, mientras que la madre para calmar su culpa de todo lo sucedido con sus hijos y el alejamiento del esposo se escondía detrás de los juegos de un casino.
Hay una canción de ROCIÓ DURCAl que dice "la costumbre es mas fuerte que el amor", dicho esto puedo concluir que para ellos este comportamiento era mas fácil hacerlo costumbre para poder olvidar momentáneamente el estrés de saber que todo se les había salido de las manos.
Muy feliz de poder leer sus escritos donde siempre me llevan a recordar las cosas que necesito mantener presente, tomarlos y ponerlos en practica ya que soy madre de 2 hermosos ángeles y lo que mas anhelo es poder cumplir mi rol adecuadamente, se que no seré perfecta y me falta mucho por aprender pero si tratar de llevarlos mientras este en mis manos por el camino correcto y mas en estos tiempo.
Un fuerte abrazo mi amiga bella, con amor @jayoxaju.
P.D. La esperare dentro de 2 viernes...
Oh Gosh ... @jayoxaju what a situation. Some people have to face so many difficulties in life :/ I found really interesting and also very smart the way you integrated all this aspects of your friends reality and took into account everyone's suffering.
One of the many reasons that causes depression in people is what you worded here as "todo se les había salido de las manos.". In psychology we call this entrapment. It is that sense that one has lost control and cannot regain again. Of course, depending on the individual, this sense of hopelessness may lead to severe depression, while in others it directs then to addictions.
I do hope that family can find peace.
As for your children, I just think they are very privileged for having a mum that is so smart, caring and realistic. I just really respect the way you always keep them in mind. It is so beautiful :)
All the best to you and all your family always!
Es un sentimiento que yo también espero ellos encuentren, ahora tengo mucho sin saber de el pero es de esos amigos que se nunca olvidare. Siempre muy complacida de poder expresarme a través de sus escritos me hacen sentir plena al escribir cada una de mis palabras.
Es muy halagador y satisfactorio que sea usted precisamente me diga estas palabras, pero siento que debe ser así ya que estoy consciente rendiré cuenta a Dios por ellos y mas que son el gran amor de mi vida, al menos en esto espero y no quiero equivocarme y que sean feliz con la crianza y educación que les pueda dar en esta vida.
Un fuerte abrazo mi estimada y bella señora y amiga @abigail-dantes.
Nice to say hello again my dear Abigail, I swear that when I read the title I said: An addict is going to talk about addictions, great! But I must say that I like your addiction, you have shared it with us and it has taught me a lot in particular.
In my family we all have a common addiction, the Internet addiction disorder. Without it we could not live haha.
And definitely the "E" I've been doing since I've been here for more than a month.
I was very struck by the part where you talk about the "Social Factors" It is a behavior that I have seen a lot, this type of people tend to start an addiction for those reasons, and really thought it was a decision and not a disease.
I have a friend who is addicted to substances, he is desperate because he does not have a good economic situation, the stress of thinking that he can not help his family has led him to do these things, and I really want to help him. And sometimes I despair too because I can not find the way, I know that you are a very wise person and if you could give me advice to help you I would appreciate it.
Hello my dear @cthkrn :) How have you been?
When you told me about your family's internet addiction I remembered this 'scene' I saw in a restaurant last month. I went out for lunch with my husband and just at the table next to us a family sat down to have a meal. Father, mother and three teenagers. Between the moment they ordered their food until it arrived they were all on their smart phones! 😲 No family interaction, even during a meal out! I wanted to take a photo of them, but I couldn't bring myself to do it.
I am sorry to hear about your friend. As a friend this is an overwhelming situation to deal with because it involves things beyond your reach - his family financial means. However, whenever I come across people with some sort of emotional distress, I try to help them to rationalize it. Explaining to him how resorting to substance use to alleviate stress can actually cause him, and his family, more stress in the future. Sometimes I go as far as to inform people what goes on in their brains to let them know how it all works and how, if they have the will, they can change bad habits and behaviours.
You friend need to be reminded that there are other means to deal with stress, which are healthy and are not going to put him, his physical and mental health in danger in the future, and these are things he really needs to preserve in order to be able to help his family.
I wish him all the best!
Lots of love to you my dear. You have such a big heart!
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I very well thank God, I hope you are also.
That has become something common families go out to "share", but with mobiles.
Well these days I have been very close to him, giving him encouragement and trying to make him think what you say, that he is capable of making a decision and changing his life and I believe it because I did it ..
Thank you very much always for your beautiful words, I appreciate them.
And the best for you always too.
Thank you always for sharing things that in one way or another make us reflect and also teach us .. See you every two Friday. Blessings for you and your family!!
You're so right about the word addiction. It can mean anything - even watching TV without a break is an addiction, and in fact a very common addiction. I wrote a post on addiction the other day in which I had stated that all addictions affect the same part of the brain. So whether it is addiction to cocaine or soda addiction, the part of the brain that in involved in creating the addiction is the same.
Oh by the way, Steemit addiction can be good if used in the right manner - i.e. writing highly interesting posts such as you do!
I think addiction to certain websites on the internet could be due to social factors as well as loneliness. For example, I know that Facebook addiction is both, after observing users who either participate aggressively or stay in the background but do login daily. The former is a case of social peer pressure at work and the latter is loneliness. I may be wrong, but that is what I have generally observed.
The Incentive Sensitization Model that you have described is a highly influential factor that facilitates addiction, in my opinion. This is the part of the brain that I mentioned earlier that does not look at what type of addiction it is, but creates a permanent addiction whatever it might be.
The Rational Choice Model of Addiction is quite interesting too. I had a friend who would order several cases of soda for the entire family as he thought that the sugar and fizz in the soda would add to the feel-good factor in his house. He even used to encourage all his friends to follow his example!
I am sure that many who read this post will feel that their knowledge about addiction has increased considerably. For most people every addiction is the same and the person who is an addict is someone who is helpless, even looked down upon.
This is so true. If people know how to manage their stress and anxiety they can easily win the fight against addiction without extensive treatment or rehabilitation.
Thank you for the excellent content!
Absolutely correct! The mesolimbic pathway to do with memory, motivation, reward etc.. when under the influence of dopamine, that is it! And like you said, whether it is because of a substance or behaviour the brain/mind pattern is the same!
I agree with what you said about loneliness driving people into social-media addiction! Emotional-psychological factors are contributors that play a huge role in initiating addictions.
What a great illustration of the Rational Choice Model of addiction you brought me here! Thank you. I am always fascinated and interested in learning about people's unique approach to feeling better. Although, I truly wish that people understood that it doesn't really need to get to that point. Because like you said, through adopting activities that lessen stress levels and anxiety one would need to go looking for fixes :/
This is a complex topic!
Thank you once again my dear for taking the time to read my work and leave such a beautiful, meaningful comment. I always, always learn from your comments :)
Have a wonderful week ahead! :*
Well, now I just expect to read something really good when Ginabot tells me you posted! This is very helpful info. I appreciate the Reflection. As someone with an addictive personality, I definitely notice that doesn't even seem to be a true statement when I am in a centered, grounded, happy period. So I wonder if our best way of avoiding addiction is to do whatever necessary to cultivate a lifestyle that supports being in a state with less anxiety, stress and sadness. Sadness might be unavoidable, but I believe stress and anxiety can be challenged, at least if one is willing to avoid certain occupations altogether, and other big things that have an all-encompassing effect. Personally, I know I cannot be a healthy person working a standard 40-hour week. I tried. Repeatedly.
I believe in this very, very much; and I really appreciate your observation on sadness. Nevertheless, your last observation is indeed a valid one (I cannot be a healthy person working a standard 40-hour week). I suppose this is left for us to actually make the effort to invest in our mental well-being. You know, with the hours we have left, instead of sitting in front of the TV for 2 hours, or the computer for that matter; what about timing it 30 minutes and the other 1, 5 engage in some relaxation, reading etc..
I do feel we live in times where in order to enjoy emotional well-being we must be proactive about it; and because of the chronic stress we live under the temptations overpower us to the point they become addictions. The way I see it is that it will always be a battle - that is why you feel you have tried repeatedly. For me, the key thing here is not to stop trying. It will not always work, however, as long as it work most of the time, you will be contributing to your mental-health.
All the best to you :)
This is a great overview of addiction. There are so many different psychological difficulties associated with addiction. It is extremely difficult to treat, especially because one has to be careful about drug interactions.
If you are interested I just wrote an article about the potential use of MDMA for treatment of addiction. Thanks for your post!
I am always interested in reading your incredible posts @ngans :) Thank you very much for stopping by. I am pleased to hear you like this overview.
Best!
You just diagnosed me xD i also have a huge upvoting addiction and crypto addiction.
But now seriously, some years ago i had a little alcohol addiction, best decision i made was shifting my addiction into another thing, i started to workout and to have more results in the gym i need to eat healthier so i shifted it into a better addiction,
Ypu, It's my only problem, when i don't go to the gym for a while i start to get really angry! It's mostly during the months i have exams, so adding to being angry i also get stressed because of the exams, it's not a good thing to be angry and stress, cortisol gets high and i start to acumulate fat lose muscle, lose focus,etc...
This made me sad, one of my best friends died last november because of crack adiction, he was a good kid but he was born with a not so good mother, he lived with his drug adict mother until he was 6 only then did the father find out about him, ofc, the father, toook him from his mother, not only him but also his half brother (no blood relation to the father), he left my city because he started consuming again(he had huge PTSD from childhood) his mother was the one who gave him the drugs, after 3 years he came back clean and more socially adapted, he wanted to connect to his old friends, i didn't have much time i was busy with college and skirt problems at the time, when i finnaly had time to speak with him he died a couple of days later.... Maybe if i hadn't been so busy he could not have restarted his drug consume, even though i think he would have restarted again anyway...
I can see this happening in my family, my grandfather was a smoker until he died, my father has been a smoker for countless years , tried to stop so many times but couldn't at least now he changed for a less "cancerigenous" form of tobacco, and i also got that addiction gene, i get addicted fast to something, i already got addicted to alcohol and video games, thank god i joined the gym and it decreased all my other addictions
Hello @teutonium :)
I am glad to hear you managed to rationalise your drinking habits and start exercising instead! However, being addicted to exercise is not a healthy thing either. But, I do believe you can find moderation. I say this because you were able to stop with the alcohol intake through a really self-aware manner.
Your friend’s story life is heart breaking! I do find that a great, great number of addictions are a consequence of troubled childhoods. The book I mentioned here, for example, The Secret Life is an account of a sex addict, who was abused when he was a child.
Yes, some people do seem to be more prone to addiction and there is strong suggestion that is due to genetic factor. It is a good thing that you are a smart guy who seem to have great levels of self-awareness. Having the understanding that you are susceptible to addiction definetly puts you in disadvantage. Wll done! :)
All the best to you & Take Care!
Hey, @abigail-dantes I hope you are fine and doing great.
This topic needs to be discussed on a big level.
We Addiction of something is good as well as bad,
Addiction to drug is bad,
Addiction to gambling is bad,
addiction to sex is bad,
Addiction to smoking is bad.
on the other side.
Addiction to your work.
Addiction to your passion is good addictions.
Addictions to good things give you success and addiction to bad things destroy you.
I know a person who was addicted to gambling, he wasted all his money that he earned by hard work of his whole life.
Hello @abdulmanan :)
In my humble opinion there is no kind of positive addiction. All kinds of addiction leads to some sort of dependent behaviour and appear to be a form of escapism. Including addiction to work. I have come across workaholic people who have lost their families because of their addiction. Because they were incapable of feeling fulfilled if they were not working.
I am very sorry to hear about your acquaintance! Gambling can indeed destroy families and lives :(
All the best to you & thank you for taking the time to comment!
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Vivimos en un mundo tan acelerado que tenemos adicciones y no nos percatamos que tenemos ese problema, ejemplo de ello tengo un amigo que es mentiroso y por lo que logre entender de tu buen artículo es que también se puede considerar como una adicción. Yo particularmente antes cuando la situación de mi país era diferente para votar estrés me iba hacer compras, claro está que hay adicciones más severas que otras como son las drogas. Al igual que otras enfermedades crónicas, la adicción se puede tratar con éxito; por otro lado pienso que el tratamiento psicológico conductual es la mejor manera de garantizar el éxito en la mayoría de los pacientes. Muy buena su publicación como siempre. Saludos!
Hello dear @livia28 :)
Actually, there is a clinical name for your friend’s behaviour, which is Mythomania, it is a psychiatric disorder. It must be difficult for the family and friends - I cannot even imagine.
I really like the way you suggest people can adress their addiction :) it just showed understanding and compassion towards them!
All the est to you.
Have a wonderful Saturday :)
hello @abigail-dantes very good morning I loved the topic that ah taken this week, about the addiction apparently nowadays there are many addictions is you world, xq you can get addicted to any thing are cases that in itself , we can leave the addiction that many at some point we have, what we have to have is that support and not leave that person alone in that addiction rather we have to try to leave the vice that person has always united we can do what we want ... I love this theme @abigail-dantes I chose the theme of the addition thank you for publishing this topic was too interesting for me ...
I am so glad to hear you found this post interesting @darwin-a :) Addiction is indeed a compelling topic, and the reason for this may be because it is so relevant nowadays!
And you are right. People living with addiction need love and support from family and friends.
All the best to you.
thank you very much @abigail-dantes if this topic I liked a lot, and if we have to look for those supports and that love enter our closest ... with the support of a person at least one .. the date of account that you should overcome yourself by yourself ... thanks for your publication leaves us good teach
hello abigail-dantes a pleasure to read your post. We live in a stressful world and seen people close to me become addicted to some kind of substances as well as other factors that make them feel better and escape from the anguished life we lead where even these vices make them lose everything both material and their families.
the genetic load is very important, I had a cigarette addiction was a compulsive smoker where I smoked up to two boxes of cigarettes a day and even more when I had some kind of problem, thank God I left it was not easy, I have three years without smoke.
One of the reasons why I stopped smoking was that my father died of cancer as a result of smoking.
thanks abigail-dantes for your very good and informative post.
Hello @urbano579 :)
Thank you so much for taking the time to stop by once again!
I do remember your experience with cigarette addiction (and what you lived through with your father falling ill). I am pleased you managed to be rational and abandon this most unhealthy habit! It must have been a rather difficult thing for you to achieve considering how much you used to smoke. Two boxes is a lot!
Above all, thank you for sharing your real life example here. I hope it can inspire other people who find themselves facing the same situation. You have just demonstrate here it is possible to win this fight!
All the best to you :)
Every other Friday is just too little time!
But, life at your end is most important.
Addictions are such that they offer some form of relief or excitation at the moment only to get you hooked on them. Then, you realise you can't just stay away.
Withdrawal symptoms could be way too distressing.
I just stay away from things that i know i can potentially get addicted to- being doing so far.
Thanks for another wonderful post Abigail :)
Exactly @nwamaka! Just the thought of experiencing the withdrawal symptoms put people off even trying to give up the object of their addiction! This is a hard battle to fight and it takes a lot of mental effort. This is why it is so important to have love and support to make it finally happen.
Thank you for stopping by once again and always leaving beautiful encouraging words for me my dear :)
All the best!
Addiction is a word with such stigma. I stopped drinking about 4 years ago because I knew I had problems - drinking to excess, it was getting in the way of work life, spending to much money. Although I was happy to register that I had a problem with drinking and managed to stop it has taken me a long time to accept that it was an addiction. I think its a societal thing - its easier to say you have a drinking problem than that you have an addiction.
Some people (like myself) are more prone to addiction which is unfortunate but something that I have to manage. Even things such as technology can be addictive so I have to keep myself in check often.
I think once you have admitted you have a problem/addiction you have won half of the battle as acceptance is one of the first steps to recovery.
Another great read @abigail-dantes
Hello Dear @conradt
It is wonderful to see you here again. Thank you for this great comment! I was particularly drawn to this part:
And I do think you delivered the right way to make sense of this "it is a societal thing". I have heard over and over again things such as "bad" addictions and "good" addictions. As for the latter, an example is workaholics. But, this is just because society deems it more acceptable; or, perhaps, even something to look up to! When, in reality, it also brings devastating consequences to individuals and families.
I do think it is important to cultivate self-awareness when it comes to addiction. Knowing you have a proneness to it puts yourself in advantage and motivates you to engage in healthier activities, leaving you less likely to deal with temptations, which are so difficult to resist!
I am glad to hear you enjoyed reading this post.
All the best & Take Care :)
I agree some addictions just have a more negativity attached to them - unfortunately it just how it is - I think if I was a workaholic no one would have a problem with that at all!
yes unfortunately for me I have to accept that I am more prone to addictions and have to be careful. Well maybe in a way I am fortunate that I have realised this at such a young age (im 30!) - some people go there whole lives not being able to admit they have addiction problem and it destroys lives.
Life is better without alcohol for me. Less complicated.
I look forward to reading your next post!
Hello @abigail hope you're doing fine :)
Personaly i see addiction as a form of weakness, because if we allow dependence on low passions we become slaves of habit.
Btw really high quality content you got there lady :)
Hello @ocupation :) It is always great hearing your opinion about the various topics we discuss here. Your view on addiction seems to fit those that dominated the mental-health sector before the arrival of the disease models. They stated what you said here: addiction is a consequence of a character weakness. The major downside with this perspective is that it seems to delay recovery, as the individual is also overwhelmed by shame and guilt.
I am pleased you liked the content I shared here!
I wish you all the best and a wonderful week ahead :)
Never occurred to me that cognitive bias could be in any way tied in with addiction, pretty intriguing concept. I was just talking with my sister about the cognitive biases I can see her going through (we can all see each others' far better than our own), and wonder if she has a more genetic disposition towards addiction more generally, the cognitive biases being a clue into that.
Learning something here =)
Good read as always!
It is great to see you here @mobbs! :)
I am so pleased to hear you learnt something from this post.
All the best to you and to your sister!
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One question that comes to mind is; how much of a disease is addiction?
Where i come from, very little attention is put to addiction and there are very few facilities on ground to help people with a form of addiction or the other.
Overcoming addiction takes a lot of effort; deliberate and otherwise and it is quite funny the variety of things a person can get addicted to, as one can get addicted to basically anything without even knowing it.
Hello @rharphelle :)
Thank you for stopping by.
This is an intriguing question. And may be one that normally arises when the topic is mental disorder. From a psychological standpoint I don't see any disease 'more of a disease' than another. Particularity when, as you highlighted here, a lot of effort is needed to control it. Because as you know, addicts are under the constant danger of relapse.
All the best to you.
I was reading the term substance and thinking, well this doesn't quite relate to internet/steemit, and then read your following note LOL ... We are so down with this substance !!
Hope all is great with you!
Haven't seen you recently on discord, though im not much active there either, but when i'm around i think you aren't, and vice versa lol
Wishing you the best dearest Abby, a fantastic weekend, and chat to you soon !! :)
Hello my dear @mcfarhat
I haven't been on the channel so much for the past few weeks! Despite my overwhelmingly busy schedule (this will change is a couple of months). Everything is fine over here :) Thank you so much for your thoughtful message! Wishing you all the best always and forever :*
Have a great day :)
good day appreciated @abigail-dantes I hope you find yourself well. your topic seems very interesting to me because I lost my father for the cigarette addiction which caused him cancer and the truth that left me a lesson in life that everything is bad and we must have a limit, of course not I smoke but I know that there are other vices that if it leads to excess it hurts us. we must learn to give value to life, enjoy healthily, share with the family and so we will have the feeling that produces the vices that unlike this will produce a full and lasting happiness.
Hello dear @catire383 :)
I am so sorry to hear about your dad! My Gosh ... Now, I am asking myself whether you told me about this before.
Finding balance, as you pointed out here, seems indeed to be the key to a healthy life and emotional stability.
All the best to you always :)
hello dear @ abigail-dantes like every Friday waiting for your incomparable publications that instruct me, Thanks for that! although I was waiting for the topic that I suggested :(
speaking about the subject there are many addictions and of course everything to the extreme is bad. This happens because of the sensation they receive when executing their vice. It offers a pleasure and a false happiness due to the fact that it is not something lasting, for that reason I think that we have to become aware, accept the problem and seek professional help, although there are cases in which the same person puts what they call willpower and solves their problem satisfactorily. a warm greeting and a happy weekend and it hurts that it will take many days to see your post!
Hello @rosnely :)
I am sorry to have disappointed you with posting about addiction today! I am not an expert on children's behaviour and I would need to gather and study a lot of material to make a good job of your post suggestion! Unfortunately, I do not have sufficient time for that at the moment 😔
I really like how you expressed your understanding of addiction, and also the way you suggest one should seek help. It is true that different people face their life difficulties in very opposite ways. I suppose this is because of a combinations of factors, including one's personality!
Ohhh ... you are such a loving person @rosnely. Soon, I will be able to post on a weekly basis!
All the best to you and your family always :)
LOVED this big smile :D
Thank you for your beautiful words, always so attentive. I hope you solve your earrings promptly so that you return weekly hahaha
i was an alcoholic and smoker when i was in college and had stop doing it when i'm in my 3rd year since our majors that time was patho-physio, microbiology, parasitology and infectious diseases. had to stop it since it was slapped in my face the damages i'm causing my body.
fortunately, for me, i did not go through withdrawal especially when i stopped smoking. no shaking, no anxiety, i just stopped and since then i never smoked but i drink occasionally.
Anyways, good luck to your studies or whatever endeavors you will be doing Ms. Abigail. :)
Hoping to read your book someday if ever you write one. hehe
God speed!
Hello dear @iamkuyaj,
It always makes me smile to hear the stories of people who manage to fight their addictions. Thank you for sharing your experience here, since it gives hope to those who are going through the same experience now. It looks like you had a very rational approach in your decision to stop! Maybe the reason you initiated could be explained through the Rational Choice Model - I am just speculating here :).
I found truly interesting the fact you did not undergo the withdrawal phase and manages to drink only occasionally nowadays. Gosh, aren't we humans fascinating! I just love learning about the different and unique ways each one of us deals with life experiences.
A book? :D Well, with all the motivation and support you give me I am definitely considering to write one in the future! Thank you for your always encouraging words my dear.
Have a great day!
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If you do decide to write a book, Ms. @abigail-dantes you may be interested in checking out a colleague of mine, she is an editor and putting together a course on marketing your book, she writes romance novels and like I said, she runs an editing business. She has a partner who is a clinical psychologist and they have joined forces to create this course. I have helped her with feedback on what to include in the course content and will be a participant. you can check it out at: http://www.author180.com/ . There will be lifetime access to the course and FB group. I don't get a commission or anything by inviting people I just want to share it and have quality people I know of to share in the journey if they so choose :)
Oh Gosh @soulsistashakti :)
Thank you so much for this incredible info! This is very kind and thoughtful of you.
You know, I am begining to consider this more seriously :)
You're welcome. I think sometimes when we are presented with just the right kind of information, with the right kind of support opportunity can just appear in the blink of an eye :)
Hello again :) . I just wanted to let you know the launch of this course has been cancelled. I am going to work with Sarah Barbour on a unique plan for my book.
i had to stop after studying the physiology of the body. hahaha
it would be very stupid of me to not stop after learning what it does to the body, especially smoking. Not only does it kills me slowly, but also i'm indirectly killing the people inhaling the smoke near me. So i just had to stop there and then. Hehe
I'm fortunate enough i did not undergo withdrawal, i wonder why though? hmmm
Because i have witness the withdrawals from my friends and its not easy for them, they suffered mentally.
Anyways, i'll search what Rational choice model is, i have no idea what it is. hehe
Can i have a discount, if you write one in the future? :)
😂 Yes!!! 50% discount!
great. haha 😂😂😂
i'll look forward to that day then.
I love the way you managed to present this issue in it's various aspects.
I must admit I got happily surprised that you even included the 'cognitive bias' aspect. When it comes to addictions, many people seem to forget or the very least underestimate 'the power' of the cognitive bias.
Another brilliant article !
P.S
Aren't we all? :p
P.S.S
Conclusion:
In the end we are all 'dopamine-junkies'.
We are!!! :D
All the best to you @dysfunctional!
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People often say will why did that person get addicted and the other person didn't (or develop PTSD from a chaotic family atmosphere one sibling does, one doesn't) because they are different!
As for the reason why people choose...it always starts out with a pleasurable reward. Rarely does one notice it is happening, that it is turning into an addiction - until it's too late and they are hooked. One of the sections of the post I posted this morning touches on this and I included a 10 min TED talk by a psychiatrist who argues that mindfulness meditation to aid in changing bad habits makes us curious which provides a reward. You may be interested! It's not hard to find on the page it's the youtube video :)
I will surely be checking that @soulsistashakti! I am a big fan of your content :)
Yay, thank you the feeling is mutual :)
This is indeed a long long post @abigail-dantes but of course very informative and helpful to us...Addiction as you mentioned is a disease, so our focus here on steemit is a passion because it's for the good (😄😄😄trying to justify my addiction to steemit) but thank you for another wonderful post ms. @abigail-dantes, and thank you for being nice and for supporting us everytime. 😘❤️❤️
Thank you for taking the time and comment too @avhyaceulip
It makes me very happy to hear you found this post informative! I will make an effort to keep the next ones shorter!! :D Justifying your addiction for Steemit .... right! .... I can see that ... well, I do that all the time! :P
All the best to you my dear!
Thank you sooo much... but I wish you can make a post not only every friday.... 😔😊. Good luck and take good care everyday... 😘😘😘
That above seems to agree with a statement I recently overheard someone say, "Not every addiction is a bad thing."
Somehow I think most are addicted to some particular form of lifestyle. I think it becomes a problem when the addicted could no longer function without the "drugs" or whatever it is that they derive a "high" from doing.
Addiction is an interesting subject of discussion; I like that you are shedding more lights on the non-pharmaceutical forms of addiction, which in my humble opinion, has more number of afflicted persons.
Thank you Green :)
I think addiction is a truly interesting subject too. Despite its complexity :)
Have a wonderful day my dear!
Thanks a lot.
What content, really that your career as a psychologist serves us all readers as if we were in a consultation hehehej, you know I thought it was interesting what you put on assimilating him with sadness, sadness and compassion, I would say, because when you put yourself in the position of these addicted people wanting to leave these addictions is complicated by the stimuli that the brain sends us with respect to the body.
I also liked what you put in how the addiction process is divided into the image of the brain since stimulating points are known that have to do even with the extremities of our body.
It's a pity that you will publish every 15 days, but you can see that your life is very interesting, grateful for your great post that feeds me more and more, greetings from Venezuela, my great friend.
@calitoo
I am so pleased to here you found this post useful @calitoo
Hopefully, soon I will be able to post every week again! Your words just motivate me to get things in order to make that happen sooner than later :)
All the best to you :*
Of course, addiction is different from the habit that is done repeatedly. When you do the habit you always do, you can stop it at any time according to the conditions that occur. But not with addiction, you really hard to stop the behavior, whatever happens to stop it. In essence, you lose control and control over what you do so you can not afford to stop the activity. Disturbance of a person's psychological aspects can also be one cause of addiction.
Some traits that show a person experiencing an addiction are: Can not stop in doing habits Unstable emotional changes Increase appetite Increase insomnia Withdraw from the environment because of the importance of things that become anger Do many denials and always justify themselves for What he did Have problems in a relationship of romance or social.
Addictions are basically these conditions in three stages: The initial stage in which the desire for the object arises The second stage, began to like the object and then lose control of themselves in doing activities related to the object.The last stage that occurs when the behavior is continued into a habit which is hard to stop. The cause of addiction is actually the emergence of a sense of pleasure in the brain. Whatever the activities, whether it is sex, psychoactive drugs, abundant wealth, or foods that taste good, will be interpreted with the same thing in the brain .They will respond to all the pleasures through a similar response, that is by producing the hormone dopamine or the pleasure hormone.These hormones will increase when you feel satisfied, happy, and happy about a thing.In this condition, it turns out dopamine is not just a response to the pleasure you just faced, but this hormone also causes timb ul excessive likes can lead to your addiction. If the dopamine levels generated by the brain are normal, then it will not cause addiction. But when you get addicted, the object that makes you addicted stimulates the brain to produce excessive dopamine.
Here's what I understand from your writing, I myself am still in the process of learning, sorry if I am wrong in understanding and commenting for your very useful post. Thank you for sharing, salvation and love always with you and family.
Thank you very much for your thorough comment and for sharing your detailed understanding of my post @jamalgayoni! You did a good job here in integrating all the models :) I am very glad that you include the significant role dopamine plays in this!
I wish the best to you and your family too :)