I think you hit something on the nail head. I my self try to be a positive thinker. Although I do allow a time depending on the degree of negitivity endured. Like eminent life with out the one you married not due to death. After 18 year he just says its over. Sad confused and many other feeling for about two weeks did the trick. I then found myself thinking of what I could do on my own with three children. Life must go on with or without. Love to you
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Wow, that's pretty impressive @abbijulie... and it sounds like a pretty healthy approach, too... you allowed yourself to grieve (and 18 years! Yeah, you totally have earned the right to feel hurt...) but life continues. Wishing you sunnier skies ahead!
Oh thanks that was some twenty years ago yet a lesson to cut down on stress which can kill. I have to much to live for so less stress. Love yourself do not fault others have fun life is wonderfully disappointing yet the question is "Do I want to live happy or not?".
It seems to be a fundamental reality of life and being human that people will disappoint us... so the real challenge becomes to simple accept that, and figure out how to live full and happy lives, regardless.
Go for it I will