I agree. After all, words are merely the superficial outlet, the tip of the iceberg. Context and Intention are most important. Thing is, the ego only sees what lies within the eye so it judges based on visibility. The ego cannot feel so it cannot know someone's Intention nor can it decipher context. Moreover, when we come from our ego we transfer our interpretation of matters onto the other. So when someone uses a certain word, we ascribe that person same attachment to this word as we have. The ego only accepts its own perspective...