People have to earn respect and trust. It is not a given. If someone has a discriminatory encounter as a person of color, or people with certain hairdo, it's part of an experience someone may have had with someone of that group previously. If that experience is due to immoral teachings, than it is up to the one being 'discriminated against' to prove them wrong. Again - morality must be part of the discussion.

When people are hurt by rejection - it is a symptom of pride and insecurity.

Just had to butt in there...