Sister why are we allowed to like someone who even that person could be ours?
Because, God wants to show us that God's only choice is the best.
Look, you're allowed to love someone, but eventually you can not have it right? It's because he's not the choice God wants to perfect your life
Look, you are left close to him but in the end you are not match with him? That's because he's not the best choice for you
If it were God's best choice, he would be yours. No, exactly be someone who will be with you, not yours. Because, I, you, you, and we all belong only to God
You do not grieve, because it is a gift. By not being with you with him, you will get many lessons, one of which is, that there will be better people than him to perfect your life
Be patient,
Just trust God
He will not be something to us but goodness ..
Although the fact that something painful, must be behind that there is a very extraordinary wisdom ....