Lying is the fuckin worst but for some reason I feel for that girl. I'll bet she was in an abusive relationship, whether it be physical or emotional, and it made her so afraid of confrontation she did everything she could to avoid it. It's learned behavior. Like apologizing for stupid things a billion times, I'm guilty of that due to my past relationships and it drives my current boyfriend mad because he'd never hurt me especially not in the way they did. Sometimes I still flinch at fast movements because of it and it breaks his heart because he's never laid a hand on me. 5 years and I'm still like this.
You're so right though, finding out the truth from anyone other than her would be awful, give someone the benefit of the doubt and just assume theyre being honest because they have no reason to lie but in their minds they have EVERY reason to lie /:
This particular poem was written about a piece of shit I fell for, mostly because he was an artist, but he was complete shit. We were like a power couple. I was a stripper, he was a drug dealer, had us spending most of our time in a dopehouse. He moved in with me and only ended up at home maybe 3 nights a week. I thought I was his girlfriend but I'm fairly certain now I was his side chick. He made up some crazy elaborate plan, told me I had to get rid of my pets in order to stay with him when we moved out of the other house. So I did, they were still babies and I was a mess anyway they were better off.... But then he told me the cops were watching us, made me flush $600 of the best coke I ever had down the toilet and leave immediately, never texted me again really, didn't even break up with me I still went out and bought him christmas presents engraved and all. Looking at his exes facebook, I realized they had gotten back together the day before he pushed me out the door. He was never honest with me, he'd say he was on his way home and leave me waiting up all night, I'd fall asleep with the lights still on just waiting for him. He told me later he did that so I wouldnt invite anyone else over -_- They're engaged now but he still hits me up often, I think some people just never change. Maybe cheating and lying is a form of addiction, it sure seems that way.