Are you with me....do you belive in long distance relationship?

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Some people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken. Of course all relationships are hard work, long-distance relationships sometimes even more so.


* My boyfriend drew this heart on the window when we had to separate with him once again.

Personally, I can say that long distance relationships are exist. And I’m a living testament . My boyfriend and I have a long-distance relationship for 4 years. At the end of the day, it’s about mutual trust and also making the effort to ensure your relationship stays strong. One of the most important things is to establish a timeline – knowing when the long-distance element of the relationship will end and you’ll be in a normal relationship.

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My husband and I had a long distance dating relationship and engagement. The total time of long distance love was 16 months (8 dating; 8 engaged and planning wedding). We obviously made the relationship work, but neither of us was interested in keeping it long distance indefinitely. Once he proposed and I accepted, he began looking for a new job where I lived and we made plans for when to get married, where to live and when to move in together (we began living together after we got home from the honeymoon). We have now lived together as husband and wife for fifteen years, so the long distance part is more and more of a distant memory.

Based on my experience, I would definitely encourage people to not let the distance get in the way of pursuing a relationship with someone who seems to be a good match. I would also say, like you, that you want to make it a goal for the relationship to not be long distance indefinitely. Either you break up because you're really not right for each other, or you get engaged and then you start making plans for a wedding and also make plans for living together after the wedding in the same house in the same geographical location. As long as the long distance period is transitional, I think it can work very well. Sticking it out can be a great way to test your commitment to each other. Just don't keep it that way once you know that this is the one with whom you want to spend the rest of your life.

hm, i dont believe in such relationship because now people all around one lie and animal need for sex

it all depends on you.you can show only the animal instincts and fuck with anyone.but what you leave in this life after yourself if you keep this way of life....
OR you may build a real strong relationship.
I believe that all the destiny of man from the hands of him

I've done it. It was fine for a while. Upon returning home after six months, we had to regain our connection. You can love someone from afar but you cannot share experiences from afar. I would only do it again with someone I was deeply in love with. I would not suggest anyone younger than 25 even consider long distance. Go live your life, don't settle down early.

I believe it can work, but only if both people understand there will be a point where they must move closer together. If bother people are unwilling to work together and compromise and stay where they are geographically, then, I don't see how that could work long term. I've been in a long distance relationship myself, and it was awful lol

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