Huge congrats on another milestone! You rock!

I think you could rock some more blonde, maybe throw some caramel in there as well, to keep it warm for your skin tone. I'd recommend going with some balayage, to avoid having a sharp line of regrowth later... makes things blend nicely as they grow out.

And coffee... what's there to say, other than it is my fuel most days. So, I totally hear you on the love there. lol

Looking forward to hearing about your travels, and sending big well-wishes to your family.