The earlier generations had a certain tenacity that many of us could use today. Working the whole year just to buy orchids for easter.

My father-in-law grew up in a poor village in China. As a boy, he loved to study. Because his family was too poor to send him to school, he raised ducks and sold them in the market with his dad so that he could pay to go to school. Unfortunately the earnings were enough for just that. In the winter, he'd walk barefoot in the snow to get to school because he had no shoes. Today, all the discomforts and annoying things that easily frustrate our generation roll of his shoulders with no effect.

He's an amazing grounded family man, just like your dad is. The detail of your post shows just how much the both of you have shared together...stories as well as experiences :) Though belated, a marvelous, touching post!! Upvoted and followed you. :)