Amen to all that. Reading your old posts and reading your recent ones you can see the huge difference. That's where I am at: being ok with who I am and if not, changing what I can. I want to focus on all the things no one can take away from me besides time. My physical and mental self. It's easy to put myself on the back burner when that's how I've been treated (victim mentality,) but once I realized I don't have to be the person I was treated like= I'm a grown ass woman, puts on big girl panties, I ain't scared of living. (Survivor mentality) ok but the Key is not slipping back into the other state of mind. I got some work to do! ☑ Great post Clay! Reading your posts like this always gives me a boost. Booster power! Sips coffee