That moment, when I realized that the answers I was looking for were in front of me all the time, I just wasn't ready to accept them, that's why I didn't see them, is amazing. I think that negative thinking is somehow inherited from our parents, for example - monkey see, monkey do. When we question our beliefs, we expand. For me, questioning is the easiest way to change my mindset. But if I stick to the Ego, questions are of no use. I must be honest. And when I am, magic happens :)