So was I ... "just talking to someone about this"! It was a very real and useful discussion! We were talking about how we need to be careful of the language we use when we talk to ourselves. The "needs", are especially tricky! I NEED this and that to be happy, fulfilled, content. What's tricky about that is if we say that is what we NEED, we are absolutely right and until that "thing" is acquired, we will live in the clawing, needy world of dissatisfaction.

We said a lot more. Your article was timely! I enjoyed it, because it made sense! Like I mentioned, I heard a voice of maturity!

You were not talking about a theory, or a speculation. You KNOW of what you speak! ...btw, I am old too! Thanks again for your honest share, @tarazkp