Hi I'm Ax Huecas and I think I should introduce myself first before doing anything haha! So here I am, I hope you can be my friend here on steem :D
So who the heck am I!? I am Ax Hendrix M. Huecas and I am a 4th year psychology major in the Philippines and will be graduating this april 2018. I want to be open to you guys and I want you all to be my bestfriend that's why I want to tell you my story so that you will know me more.
As a kid, I had a rough time growing up because I was traumitized by my father; he would beat me everyday for no apparent reason and I remember when there was a flood at our area, he left me alone inside the house while the water was flowing inside the house. As a kid what did I do? I reached out to my neighbors and I called out my friend jb but he was not there. When my dad came home and saw that my clothes were wet, he was furious and he beat me up to the point where he grabbed my tako (tagalog for cue stick) and he hit me with it until it broke. Where was my mother? my mother was an ofw, and she was in japan at that time.
My mother had the same fate with my father. My mom went to japan because she was a battered wife. She was also traumatized because my father would always beat her up whenever he comes home after losing at the casino. So my mother flew to japan, then when she got home, she took the advantage that my father was not at home and brought me to bulacan.
From there, my mother gave me the life that I didn't had with my father, even though my mother is a single parent, she did really well raising me. She gave me everything that I want and needed and she was a great provider and mother all at the same time. I grew up loving my father and not hating him because my mother always told me to love my father and to never hate him because he's still my father. But when I grew up, I saw the situation that he's in, and I saw that my grandmother was still feeding my father. My father doesn't have a real job and the one providing for my father's family is my grandmother.
I was glad to have my mother raise me to become an independent person and now that I took psychology, I understand people more and help people especially kids that have been traumatized because aside from I can relate from them, I now have the knowledge and skills to help those people.
So why did I take psychology? I took psychology because I wanted to help people with their mental health. And because I got traumatized, I wanted to help people get over or reduce their problems mentally. Even though I haven't graduated yet, my volunteering work on 7 cups and to my church really helped me in my skills and in my life. I've always wanted to help people with their lives and it really makes me feel good that I can help someone in need.
If you have any problems and If you have something that you want to talk about, I'm here for you. I can be your counselor :) I can also be your friend if you want :D
So that's me everyone! I hope I can your friend here on steemit and may you live your life to the fullest. :D
What a touching story you got there:)
All the best and welcome kabayan.
Enjoy your stay here.
Thanks kabayan! hope we can be friends! :D
Thank God for your Mom, the greatest gift of Nature is a mother. If y’all agree with me kindly upvote. Keep steeming and touching lives, more grace to write more and better
Yeah, mothers are the greatest gift that anyone could have. I would've hated my father if it wasn't for her.
I had goose bumps and teary eyes as i was reading ur story. Sometimes we go through uncerrtain days in order for us to find our purpose and calling in this world. Am sorry you had to go through that but glad u found ur passion through it and now ots just but a testimony. We need more people like u in this world .
Welcome to steemit and have a blast here.
By the way i'm always creeped out by psychologists. For some reason , i always freel they can read my mind, haha
Thank you so much! We don't read minds tho haha :D
Right.
Wow! What a wonderful guy is this in our mist .you are welcome my dear.feel free my dear ,you are at the right place to be ,your type is people that we need here so we are waitng to see our preception and mindset been transformed positvely by you been a psychology major .we are glad to have you here.
Thanks for having me! I'll definitely use my experience and my knowledge to help people here on steemit :D
Simply put... you’re talented, nice piece and weldone. More grease to your elbow. Keep steeming and touching lives
Thank you so much!
Wow @axhuecas! I salute you for not hating your father and I’m happy that you were able to escaped from brutality. I wish you all the best in your studies and looking forward in your graduation blog here! Cheers! 😊
Thank you so much! :D
You’re most welcome! 😊
Welcome to Steemit! XD
Is this for free? Many people are sad in here ☺
Yes it's free don't worry :D
Wow! Such a brave young man. I am really happy that you had overcome everything that happened in your past. But I am happier because you used that traumatic experience to be a better version of yourself and you even try to help other people who had also experienced yours. I am hoping to see a photo of you here with your toga. Congratulations in advance! I hope I can talk to you and share to you my problems. I believe you can give me an advice. I am also a single parent and it's really hard so take good care of your mother okay? Welcome to Steemit and God bless!
Thank you so much! You can send me a private message so we can talk :D And yes, I will take care of my mother :D Godbless you :D
wow. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.
It was truly a heart-wrenching story. Hats off to you! for rising and keeping your head high. I really adore you for being vibrant and valiant amidst what happened to you which is truly traumatic. You value the meaning of life on a positive aspect and reaching out for other people dealing lives to look on the brighter side of life. Keep motivating and inspiring others kabayan!
thank you so much kabayan! :D
Woah! You’re a psych student too! :) Looking forward to your journey here.. Keep the fire burning inside you.. Steem on kababayan!! :)
Nice to see a fellow psych student and kababayan!! :D Steem on!
Welcome. I will follow you for a while, see what you got :D
thank you so much! :D
Welcome to Steem kabayan, good luck.
Thank you so much kabayan! :D
You're very much welcome kabayan.
welcome to steemit
Thank you so much! :D
Welcome to steemit @axhuecas! God bless you on your journey and may you be able to help those who need it most.
Thank you so much! :D
Welcome to Steemit!
Followed and upvoted you.
Also, thank you for lending your hand to be a counselor whenever someone here needs a person to talk to. You can also do the same to me. Let me know if you got problems or anything to talk to. :)
sad to hear about you and your father, at least you put your self as resilient one. Keep going.
Stories like yours make us who we are. I am sorry your dad had it rough and took it out on you, but am also happy that the situation gave your mum the strength to strive for more and in doing so built your strength and resilience as well. Thank you for sharing and hope to read more from you.