MY ROLE MODEL

in #personal7 years ago (edited)

Being an elder, I should be responsible of my actions because I have the two younger sisters that are born after me. What they will become soon will reflect my personality. 

In your house, who is usually making a decision? Who often advises you to try and try? Are their learnings molds you into a better you?

When I was young and inexperienced, I never scared to do new things because aside from my parents, there is my eldest sister. 

Early in the morning, she would take a bath and study. In the weekend, she cleans the kitchen, water the plants, cleans the yard, play, swim, and cook foods with her peers. There are many things before in her hobbies that I  didn't like. She usually weeded the garden and plants if there are many plants that die. I cannot do the same. 

During the spare time, my neighbors come to our house. 

"You are very lucky for your daughter! She is very industrious," they said.

During her adolescence, she hid in her first period. She was angry that my parents when she saw my parents rejoicing.

"Finally, we have a young lady," my father said while he danced with my mother.

 In her teenage days, there were many boys in the place that admired to her the fact that she was the smartest student in the school and her simplicity too. 

When she arrived home from school, she just read, read, read. One time, I had an assignment in Math. Because I am very allergy on this subject, I begged her to answer perfectly. Surprisingly, she said that I cannot learn many things if I'll rely those hard things on her. Instead of answering my assignment, she took my Mathematics notebook and taught me everything. In the morning, I went to school with an excitement. I was very sure that my assignment has a perfect score. 

Now that we're not teenagers anymore, I still cannot stand up alone. My mind is ignorant to handle emotional pressure, but my eldest sister is always ready to give me the advice to be on the right track. For me, she is my perfect model. She fought sensitivity before, now I've learned to avoid assuming negativities. She knows how to write quality articles, now I can write good contents. She knows how to draw, now I can draw more than what she can.

Not just my parents, I salute my eldest sister and to the eldest sisters in the world because they sometimes take place of our parent's responsibilities. I am amazed at my sister who is very mature to plan all things and to run the race of life. Every time we have a chitchat, she can always hear me saying I never want to be the eldest because of the big responsibility that is tasked to do. 

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Indeed you are making some senses

I bet your ate must be proud of you if she will be able to read this. ;)

i am the only daughter in the family so i never experienced how to have a sister.. glad that your sister has been a good role model to you!

@junebride, nalibat naku friend rule akung nabutang. Hahaha

haha mao na to sis.. basta wala ko kabantay ato

Being eldest is no easy thing hehe