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RE: Rejecting Mainstream Parenting

in #peacefulparenting ā€¢ 7 years ago (edited)

You seem like a kindred spirit @honeydue šŸ˜Š Iā€™m glad we could cross paths & find common ground. Itā€™s not often that I get to hear from other unschooled people besides my little tribe so this is a treat. What did you love most about it? My daughter says her favorite part is that she gets to be herself again, which speaks so much to me.

I wish and encourage more families to stop and choose the path of connection! I wish my mom would have chosen another path besides yelling at, grounding and hitting me for my inability to function in school much less do it well however I think without the hurt child inside me it may not have been possible to identify the hurt child my daughter once was when I parented by ā€œthe idiotic values imposed by this stupid societyā€ (I love how you put that! lol) so at least it happened for a reason. šŸ’œ

You rock!

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Hmm I think the thing I loved most about it was that I got to spend more time with my family and that I got to be in charge of what I learned. I got to read/watch/learn all sorts of really awesome things that I wouldn't normally have gotten to do.

I think it's really cool that you did this. Honestly, I'm a bit worried how my own kids will turn out (when they do!), because obviously I want to unschool them from the get go, but you never know how things turn out, do ya?
<3 Glad to have met you too.

Itā€™s a gift to be able to realize/dive into your interests. I think thatā€™s why talents are called gifts ~ not everyone gets to do what theyā€™re naturally good at or interested in though itā€™s typically temporary. I often wonder what could have happened for me in terms of a ā€œcareerā€ if I had been allowed to pursue my individual interests from the beginning because I am now 28 and barely realizing my own passion in life (fiber stuff obviously šŸ˜Š) because my daughter is only 9 and is so very aware of her love for singing, animals, sewing, DIY & all things ā€œgothā€/vampire/zombie that Im going to be incredibly surprised if she doesnā€™t become a professional creative one day. But who knows, she could just become a creative mama like myself and that would be so great too. Youā€™re very wise ~ We never know what the future brings!