You have a beautiful family. I hope I can forgive my ex for her pregnancy by deception. I love my daughter (dont get me wrong) I just wasnt ready to be a father and I didnt like being tricked into it.
So far, co-parenting hasnt been that bad (she is still a newborn) but I would be lying if there still wasnt resentment toward her mom. I am good at putting that aside; however, so we can be a family to our daughter.
That's unfortunate. It shows a lot of heart to do the right thing, and be there for your daughter. Not all men would. When she grows up, even if she knows you didn't "want" her, she'll know that you love her all the same, and stood by her side.