Thank you and I appreciate your support also. Yes I agree this is something that someone with some experience with children needs to come aboard on like a school counselor. I also think we may be at a turning point where his mom herself is doing some reflections upon his behaviors. At least the other day when she brought him over for me to babysit she brought his spelling words....I took that as she may be agreeing that he needs stern guidance to succeed and I wasn't being so awful after all. Let us hope right? If you see me around let me know what you decide about the girl and how that works out. Good luck.