I am a work outside of the home dad, but your post resonates with me because my wife is a full-time "work" at mom.

She loves her "work" even though the pay is only hugs, kisses, and "I love you's." @arrliinn, I hope you find a solution where you can stay together as a family and spend quality time together.

I also understnad how hard it is to do life overseas. My thoughts and prayers are with you today!