Hello Hivers.
Its me onlyonepearl, its sure has been a minute here. It hasn't been quite tge expected result that I hoped for, but i'm a step closer each time I try.
Life has been quite weird following the happenings, activities going on here and there, family ish, school, finance, even friends. Everyone one trying to tell you what and what not to do. Friends imposing everything and anything on you simply because you trying to blend and not feel left out.
But these people don't actually know the real things you go through, they actually can't tell if you're having a bad day from work or your life is in a delicate state.
Right before I started working, it was all easy and rosy, felt like I had everything under control, more like I was on too if the world and nothing, absolutely nothing can come in between my perfectly planned schedule until I got my current job.
God! It was like my emotions and feelings and everything was all over the place, I found extremely difficult to balance my personal life and work life both at the same time.
I was a complete mess!.
It became difficult to meet up with my activities in church, spend time with friends, stream movies, listen to music or even catch a nap for a few minutes except at night. I was literally losing my peace.
It was so devastating that I thought maybe I shouldn't have gone for the job in the first place until an idea dropped in mind.
I decided to rearrange my schedule, like the time I spend with friends, time i consume on streaming movies and listening to songs, time I spend in my short naps and all, even the time I spend chatting, then I was able to squeeze out more time for myself, just me of course and also be able to balance my work life.
Truth be told, it wasn't easy at all because my friends thought I was avoiding them or that I found new friends at work and all but with time they came to understand that I needed to do what I did for my sake.
I'm hopeful and certain, that with time it'll get better and everything will go back to normal.
Thanks for reading..
OMG, what a great content I here.
I lent it the hard way too baby girl, up till now, I still don't really know how to make that balance, and most especially my WhatsApp fan base, they are tired of my absence and it can be really draining sometimes
Thanks babe❤
Most time's, there are decisions we make that may affect in a way but i promise you that they are exactly what you need dear so, you don't need to feel bad or think about it because everyone's way of thinking varies.
Nice post dear. Thanks for sharing ☺️❤️