Just relapsed from Day 27 back down to Day 0 today. I wanted to make this post as a quick reminder that this is just another milestone in the overall journey. Before this, I had a 7 day streak.
I'm actually a little relieved that the sexual tension has slightly died down. The reason I went out obsessively every single day recently doing pickup is the same reason I'm doing NoFap. It's to improve my social skills, my mental clarity, my confidence and just overall my way of life. The only problem is.. let's face it, I fucking love sex. I have too much energy. I love pickup but I love it a little too much, as in when I go out it turns into the same obsession as with pornography, I forget about everything else and leave it all behind till I am satisfied (or just exhausted) with the day.
Hopefully my new plan: Only pickup on the weekends will actually come into fruition now. 3 girls on Saturday, 3 girls on Sunday, and 1 girl somewhere in between one of my workdays IF I find an amazing heartstopper.
In the end, the most important thing is concentrating on making more money ;) But I have to say... this is one major obstacle I will be forced to conquer. One way or another.
I may sound retarded to most of you but abstinence is the best state of mind ever. Just not thinking about instant pleasure (fapping or sex) will improve your productivity. And in a couple of weeks you'll feel extremely calm and comfortable. And this doesn't apply only for fapping, you could abstain from alcohol and other poisonous activities.
The longest I've abstained from things is over a month, however for me I'm unable to concentrate without releasing my sexual energy. I get so obsessed about it that I can waste hours just fighting the thoughts. Whether it's through NoFap, prostitutes , Tinder or picking up beautiful women off the street.. there needs to be a release eventually for some people.
But... A good Fap is so healthy. But I admit, money is better. (I talk about both on my blog, haha)
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If you haven't tried it yet, I'd seriously recommend looking into NoFap.
I hope you can get this under control; it's kind of like being a slave when you are addicted to anything as I'm sure you know. I wish for you the love of one woman for the rest of your life!
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I have read and watched a little about the nofap but I still cannot believe the hype. I get the whole addiction thing and the need for increasing dopamine releases but how can abstinence help?
NoFap is the devil.
That's your choice
Damn dude! What next becoming a catholic monk? Lol
Had a friend go there, I've decided against it
I think just having conversations with people will do more for you spiritually than ego driven pickup
I see little point in communicating with humans if there's nothing involved in it for me. I've already had hundreds of non-sexual talks with random strangers. Ultimately all I've gained from it was better social skills so that I'm able to use it for the talks that actually matter. Contrary to popular belief, most people are shit and don't mean anything. It's not that I want to be an asshole, in fact I'm a very nice guy, however since the world's full of assholes I'm forced to use power to reign in control.
You stated that improving your social skills was the point? "The reason I went out obsessively every single day recently doing pickup is the same reason I'm doing NoFap. It's to improve my social skills, my mental clarity, my confidence and just overall my way of life", I'm slightly weary of people who tell me that they are "nice"... But whatever, as long as you're a happy little soul 😊
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