Bracing up and getting out of Life Difficulties

On the life’s path, there are many difficulties and obstacles. Some passes them easily, with dignity, some gets a hard time. But this is life, and as long as we live, we can overcome difficulties that prevent us from developing, moving forward, fulfilling our dreams and goals.
How can we not take offense at life because of difficulties? Much depends on the person himself. Let me make a reference to my friend’s situation.
Mary at work was assigned to an important, responsible job. But by chance I heard from her these words: "I will not succeed! Why did she accepts this work? The boss may think that I can not cope ... "
Perhaps it was some unfortunate day, maybe some bad events like the machine broke down, the courier did not deliver the documents on time, another coffee was spilled and soiled clothes. Such unpleasant nuances are many. They spoiled the mood and, apparently, led to the thoughts that were spoken by Maria out loud.
Stop being scolded
There is nothing good in that we curse ourselves. Problems can not be solved by this. All people make mistakes or there are some obstacles. The main thing is to notice them and on time, to fix it qualitatively. And scolding yourself is a waste of precious time.
“If you made a mistake, you can always say: "How interesting it turned out!"
And criticizing yourself is a bad attitude, which is destructive. To achieve our goals, we need something completely different.
We cast aside uncertainties and fears!
On the way to achieving the goal, fear is a big obstacle. Maria feels it – she is afraid that she will not cope, the team will fail, the boss will be dissatisfied. Fear prevents many. Fear often occurs against the background of self-doubt. But how can a successful person be insecure?
If you are an experienced, knowledgeable professional, constantly working on yourself, your development - you can adequately handle a responsible job that seems complicated like “Complex business, difficult life situations is a challenge that needs to be overcome. It is difficult for one person to overcome difficulties. Sometimes it is appropriate to ask for help or work in cooperation. Maria does not work alone, but in a team. She can always count on the support of the team, properly organizing the work.

It is better to be organized by a person
Having prioritized, it is easier to understand where to move. Each person can manage their time by performing important tasks of medium importance and least important in the right sequence. Using an ordinary paper diary, organizer in the phone or computer programs, you can easily organize yourself.
Also, under organization, I understand the order in everything: on the desktop, in documents, etc. Although everyone has a choice, and a person can be happy and in a creative mess. But the best results can be obtained through organization.
Do not let go of your hands in difficult situations, and look for outputs
In certain situations that it seems nothing will turn out and there is no way out. Only difficulties are noticeable. But this is not a reason to give up and tell yourself that it's better not to continue working. It is important to understand the reason to solve the problem. And if you do not get help without outside help, then you should resort to it. After all, smart, competent people can help.
You can also think over everything yourself, write down options, choose the best ones. Solutions are sure to be found and there will be several. “From any situation, even at first glance, the most desperate, there are several exits”
And so, overcoming fears, having carefully thought out everything, having planned, with a positive attitude, we immediately begin to act. And the difficulties will not be a big problem. On the contrary, they will make us stronger, push to develop the personality, form an internal core.

Our heroine Maria managed to pull herself together, show her professionalism and competence (she stopped panicking, planned everything, organized). She was able to cope with the difficulties that periodically arose. Together with the staff, she successfully completed and passed the project, and received the highest praise from her superiors.

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