If 'positive thinking' is not advisable - then what approach is? Meet "Non-duality".

in #new-age6 years ago

Excerpt: In part one I explained why positive thinking might be harmful for your spiritual growth. Here, in the second and last part, I am detailing the alternative which goes beyond the process of thinking. It's simple but not easy. Can you forfeit the mind chatter all together and allow the true essence of creation, yourself, to come through?


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If you go out of the duality (good vs. bad; light vs. dark) you realize that the world is a harmonious system which works perfectly; that every event and experience, whether “good” or “bad”, happens appropriately. There are no mistakes and whatever happens to us is right and only leads us towards enlightenment.

Of course, this realization requires tremendous trust and a leap of faith. A big leap!

Positive thinking is likened to a flight in an air-balloon. We indeed manage to soar above the earth and to detach ourselves from the sweeping mass-consciousness; we indeed manage to become observers and to develop a perspective about the reality; we indeed can look downward and notice both the ugly and the beautiful sceneries.

While the flight in the balloon can indeed be enriching and emotional, only when we really fly high, way into space, we can see the entire globe. Only from high above we can see the whole picture, the earth in its impeccable creation. Then our soul rejoices.

The primal benefit that harmonious thinking brings is the emotional and mental ability to accept any event even the severest and most grievous. Situations like breaking up from a beloved spouse, loss of a job, car accident, financial difficulties, and even a death of a loved one, are seen suddenly in a new aura and are perceived exactly as they really are. That is, experiences that we have chosen to serve us. When we understand that we can fully accept the “bad” situations we automatically enable ourselves to change our life.

When we give up the positive-negative dichotomy we discover that the thoughts that pass through us are merely thoughts which, if left alone to freely flow, bring feelings of balance, joy, self-esteem and security. We come to this A-ha moment when we see that 90% of the thoughts that we think are not even ours. They come from other people.

When you work with your beliefs pay attention not to fall to the positive thinking attitude. It indeed has served you in the past but no longer. Make sure you do not make the effort to think “only positive”.

There is no such think as “positive thought” just as there is no such thing as “negative thought”. These are false conceptions of our minds. “Warriors of light” are also “dark warriors” . The truest way to deal with the reality is through the piercing observation of everything, without judging it as “good” or “bad” and without trying to fix it to become “positive”.

Can you stop judging? Not just other people or other events. But yourself as well.

You are not good people!
You are not bad people either!
You are who you are.
Both light and dark.
Dark is divine. Light is evil. Light is Divine. Dark is evil.
But beyond the duality both are neither.
They are only an experience.

An approach to life that addresses both sides of the experience brings the inner peace and the balance that prepare the ground for your enlightenment.


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I'd rather be in a neutral state, being positive takes you higher and if you fall the impact is devastating, so keep on the ground be a realist and keep moving forward. thanks for this post @nomad-magus . :)

There are 2 tools, that can help people on the path to remember their nondual nature.
The first is, to let go the need to know which duality you are - not defining if your thoughts are positive or negative, but most of all, not trying to find out what you are in dual categories. The need to know and define yourself, is inert in the dualistic mind and this can be a worthwhile exercise to let this need to know go.
The second is, what Tim Freke calls "paralogical thinking" - becoming more and more familiar with the notion, that reality (and what you think about it) is always both - positive and negative - and even if for the logical mind it seems as if it can only be the one way and not the other. This can be done by replacing all "OR" statements with "AND". The word "and" works like an antidote to the dualistic mind.
Besides that, light for me is not the opposite of dark. Dark for me means unconscious and it's opposite is conscious/aware. Light has no opposites, since it is already the transcended state. So unconscious light is called darkness and conscious light means Awareness. Light (as in en-light-enment) for me is a description of nondual realization that is nothing and everything at the same time. Cheers and thank you! 🙏

Interesting, but the words will only hold meaning once a person has had the commensurate experience.

For example, there is a conscious darkness, a conscious sleep - it may sound like an oxymoron but the experience is possible, hence then the words no longer sound paradoxical.

Well said. What I find interesting at the moment are the number of writers who have reached a level of experience and/or philosophy that are in essence close to Buddhism (or even Taoism) but without approaching life through that particular religion.

I am currently reading Buckminster Fuller, who ha much to say about perceiving life clearly, decentralisation and the quest for human life worth living.

If Dante's Hell was signposted with "Abandon all hope" then perhaps Heaven should have had "Abandon all faith" followed by "and see clearly".

Indeed.
We are in the last days of any institutional faith!
Very good news.
A few decades from today and we will not understand how we once followed dogmas.

The trick is finding the balance between being optimistic and being realistic.
Someone rightly said: Stop and smell the roses, but first check for dog poop on the sidewalk beneath your feet.

Don't you think that accepting the "bad" and "good" things in our life is sort of a positive thinking?

It's semantic.
New age defines positive as good, happy, nice, etc.
If for you "positive" equals acceptance then your approach is not dualistic (in my terms). ☺️

Sometimes the thought of the positive sides of outward appearance, not necessarily in terms of appearance can guess positive or negative

Only positivism can't help, one has to think negative so that he would be prepared for the worst and all of us don't think positive some of us think negative as well so we should think like them so that we will not get overcomed by there negative thinking.
You are not good people!
You are not bad people either!
You are who you are.
Both light and dark.
Dark is divine. Light is evil. Light is Divine. Dark is evil.
But beyond the duality both are neither.
They are only an experience

I loved to read this

It is natural, healthy and honest thinking that people will have thoughts on the mind of the wise However, the problem is only when it is anxiety, when the risk of failure and risk is born - tension, tension, headache, hand-shaking, sweat, stomach molasses, and so on. . . . ! The healthy and good thoughts are good for us, the contrast is equally harmful for our body and mind.

In fact, thinking is such a thing that makes people aware.
Helps people to reach the right conclusions.
Good-looking understanding is helpful.
On the whole, to find the right path,
Helps you to know, understand, understand.

There is so much more behind and beyond thinking.
You will be amazed how your clarity and focus are much better.🙂

I think, every human being is between two sides. bright side (good) and dark side (bad). just a taste that can lead to a bright path.

Good post @nomad-magus. Thanks

I agree..
This world or the people living in this world can't be classified as good or bad. We are human beings.
We are good as well as bad.

Dark is divine. Light is evil. Light is Divine. Dark is evil.
But beyond the duality both are neither.

This is perfect

The main benefit brought by harmonious thinking becomes the thing that everyone wants what if the thinking is not harmonious whatever the work will be choked

..then this is why I suggest the non-thinking approach. Beyond the mind.

Positive thinking is more than just a tagline. It changes the way we behave. And I firmly believe that when I am positive, it not only makes me better, but it also makes those around me better.

That is true, mate.
In my two posts, I am suggesting a beyond-thoughts approach.

I have always loved your positive approach and it is appreciable.
I particularly loved this one, "An approach to life that addresses both sides of the experience brings the inner peace and the balance that prepare the ground for your enlightenment".

I am myself an optimist so i understand the beauty of the positivity well

All things change according to time.
But, those who try to do this, they themselves do not harm themselves, or harm society or others.
Which can happen without knowing itself.
For this we need to think more honestly.
Honest thought can save man from any harm.
Technology has given the people far ahead.
However, its honesty is not yet confirmed by the people.
And to ensure its good use, people have to think honestly.

That's absolutely right and i really agree with your words as let your thoughts flow without judging negative and positive, and the thoughts are not yours it's transformed from others and negative and positive thoughts are misconceptions, yes all these are really true to great extent not to full extent because we cannot judge the thought process to it's entirety. So never restrict your thoughts and don't sub categorise your vast subject of thoughts in positive and negative instead let it flow and you live your life in flow because your thoughts are not reality but they are exploration of reality so let your thoughts fly. Thanks for sharing and wishing you an great day. Stay blessed. 🙂

Let the every emotion and every feeling flow, dont limit it, it will find a way to make you feel like satisfied.

The Ying and the yang we are ! Some would say that what you have just said is the essence of positive thinking ! But I understand you clearly ! Very good read !

In this realm of our existence, the realities of good and bad cannot be overlooked. All things work together for good to those who love God, quoting from the scroptures. Our ability to suceed in life does not depend on wishful thinking but rather by FAITH and WORK. Faith in God and personal development are twin links to success.

I have a post titled "YOU ARE GODS" Please I need your comment.

The post is very interesting, i like it, and also enjoying all of yours comments, well i read your every post, keep it up, thanx for sharing.

great post...upvote and resteem :)

Your post is very good I like posting like you this thanks.
@nomad-mag..

Saya sagat setuju pernyataan anda yang mengatakan,,,
Jika Anda keluar dari dualitas (baik vs. buruk; terang vs gelap) Anda menyadari bahwa dunia adalah sistem harmonis yang bekerja sempurna; bahwa setiap peristiwa dan pengalaman, apakah "baik" atau "buruk", terjadi dengan tepat. Tidak ada kesalahan dan apapun yang terjadi pada kita adalah benar dan hanya membawa kita menuju pencerahan.

with us thinking positively all the problems will be easily resolved and make our mind become more rilex and surely our life become healthier @nomad-magus

When you're more aware of the way you think, you can take action to use positive situations to your advantage, and re-shape the negative ones. The goal is to think positively, regardless of the situation, and make a conscious effort to see opportunities instead of obstacles.

Well said, my fellow Steemian, I was speechless for a couple minutes. I have never truly researched or gave too much thought to balance as a way of life but I always loved to talk about yin-yang, the balance of our emotions, our food, activity etc. and how everything happens for a reason and everything as is, we can not change the action but we can control our reaction. :) That is how we become we, you are you and I am I. The more I read from you the more I want to read the next one thank you for that!

The concept comes out of this duality of thought, inspired to write about the aceh tag and tag indonesia. Because our friends disagree about both. I am here to offer the concept out of duality that is inspired from my brother @ nomad-magus post. unexpectedly, it turns out my last post viral with this concept. Thank you

every day I wait for your post. which is always amazing.

@nomad-magus

very nice post tnx for shereing

Good people or bad people who classifies them. Its we the humans, ourselves. What we do personally whether we are right or wrong mostly we feel it to be right but it may not be true with others. Maybe for others its all wrong and there msybe even few for whom its right... So basically its all within the humans that how they take it... Also finding a balance neither being too optimist nor being too negative is whst can help us dwell. Anyways always be on slightly optimist side because either you win or you learn.

positive thinking and negative thinking both are necessary to survive in this world. Positive thinking is a good thing but we in some cases we have to think its negative way ... keep equality between them. and this is very good post thanks for posting like this.

Dear @nomad-magus... I will always say that positivity has great impact instead of negativity. Positive thinking makes your mind clear from all worries while negative mind always create unrealistic situations.
So I will never go to the dark but to light...
Thanks for sharing part 2.

Indeed, as I wrote in part I:

"Don't get me wrong - from the duality perspective it's far better to have a positive attitude towards life than a negative one, and if you are insisting on thinking all the time you better think happy thoughts."

However, there is much more beyond thinking for those who wish to see.
Thanks for your feedback👍

Sorry I think I couldn't understand what you says in this post. So I try to read the post again and again to get what you actually point out. Sorry for irrelevant comments if it is.
Thanks for guidance.

Every comment you make from your heart is relevant, my friend 👍

The time is money @nomad-magus

Amazing 😉

Well said'Being strong is most likely to you and if you influence it,you are destructive.
So the earth proceeded in a realistic future.
Thank u @nomad-magus for this post.

wow very nice tnx for shereing

Both light and dark.
Dark is divine. Light is evil. Light is Divine. Dark is evil.

Light is easy to love... Show me ur Darkness..

I stand for Darkness... let me be called Evil...