I'm sorry for what's happened to you, it's not nice to being treated like that for sure. On the other hand, that dress is nice, looks good on you.

I see you posted this on your blog and not in a community. Most likely it wasn't intentional. No worries, it happens. Next time you can use one of the communities, like Reflections, or Ladies of Hive

I have a set of newbie guides at the bottom of my posts, maybe check them out if you need any guidance.