I need assistance for the burial of my father

in #need-assistance7 years ago (edited)

Good day to all kind-hearted Steemians.

I'm sorry if I have to do this, I NEED A DONATION FOR MY FATHER'S BURIAL.

Today my father died due to sickness and aging. I am ashamed to do this but I have to set aside it for now due to necessity. My parents are very less fortunate and the only thing that we could be proud of, is the life we have.

We have not prepared for the death of my father, who would wanted to, and if we wanted to, we could not just afford to do it.

We need monetary assistance for the burial of my father. There are so many things that we need to pay such as coffin which occupies the large portion and the cemetery. My husband has a life insurance and part of that insurance is a burial package.

We wanted to use the burial package for my father but we have to pay $800 because it is not yet fully paid. We need to pay it in full before we can assign it to my father. We have the initial cost of the cemetery at $160 but hopefully it will be lessen for charity reason.

I am only asking for the cost of the coffin and we'll just have to find a way for the other expenses.

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This is my father when we visited him 2 weeks ago. They are currently living in a government provided settlement after storm Sendong took their house last December 2011.

His sickness all started when he fell down from a coconut tree to extract coconut wine 2 years ago. After that accident, his body started to lose shape and strength and since we could not afford to bring him to a specialist, me and my sisters together with my mother took care of him. We thought it was fine, until few months ago, he stopped taking his food. We tried giving him everything he wanted but unfortunately he couldn't swallow it anymore.

Until today, he passed away at the age of 78.

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This was my father few months after he fell down from the coconut tree.

We missed you papa.

TO ALL STEEMIANS, THANK YOU IN ADVANCE.

Edited:
As adviced, for those who wanted to donate directly to my bitcoin wallet, here is it:
14tcDjnkRejxUf36RmMmfno8zAvrjwRG77

As also advice by my friends in steemit. I am putting other coin addresses due to bitcoin fork.
Here's my other coin addresses:
Etherium: 0x0529A855B17607ea2d9C767Bc12f1F56702e3a30
LTC: LN4zFwtiwJAV1GGp92yUNdyoka5QrK5YG6

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I just donated a randowhale vote.

Anyone else want to do a booster vote?

Thank you very much

I've sent the treeplanter for help

Thank u, God bless too.

This post received a 2.7% upvote from @randowhale thanks to @grey580! For more information, click here!

resteemed. Sorry. How much need do you have left?

I sent 18 SBD's,...in my culture is a holy number, would like to see her able to do this...also read your article yesterday and it was good
b.a.

Thank you very much. Appreciated

I try to help the people.

You are a beaut buddy.

God love ya.

Hey @barrydutton - thanks for bringing this to my attention. I intend to make a BTC donation as soon as the exchanges allow withdrawals.

Ah, you are a beaut.

You can still trade in there just not deposit or withdraw yet, I am taking profit tonite.

Bittrex is trading super high right MEAOW for the new Bitcoin if you want to take profit on the new coin.

Or you can use a wallet not on an exchange if you like.

Thanks my friend. She put up Litecoin and other addresses too after I asked her to, being a good idea for various reasons here I laid out for her.

(wallet lockdowns, BTC tx fees being high, etc)

I am doing my post to help her now!

Thanks @aggroed. Still at $700 for the coffin.

Sincere condolences. Upvoted 100%.

Thank u so much.

Upvoted friend...God bless you & ur family.

Maybe for while i can help u with upvote , God Bless u and your family

Hello Dian.

Thanks for sending me this post.

It was $2.05 when I saw this and I had a lot of vote power stored up which is rare so I was able to double and a half this for you and then some to $5.

You have been a great Steem community member, I am sending this to some whales for some votes for you, I hope it helps.

You seem like such a nice person. Thanks for all the comments you make on Steem posts - you have helped build a friendly community for all of us.

Blessings to you my friend!!!!

Peace be with your family with this and always.

EDIT: Some of the nice whales have voted your post that I sent this to and they are very nice people and community members too. This has turned into your highest paying post from you I have ever seen by far and some people have sent you donations too.

Resteemed too by myself and I will keep in touch with you on this friend.

Thank you so much reading your comment make felt ease but can't help crying. Thank you so much for being a good friend and a steemians that we can turn too. Update u soon.

Steemians will come together for you and this, Expressing Condolences and sending prayers to you and yours, whatever you need we will come together for you.

It is the least we can do, you are always laughing and making jokes with us, helping us have fun, it bothers me to see you upset.

You are a beautiful soul.

It is our pleasure to help you.

I appreciate your kindness my friend @barrydutton. God bless you

Thanks for sending this link to me Barry. I made it only because of you.

Aw man, that is nice of you to stop in and vote and comment like this, thanks my man.

Dian is good people.

At sir @papa-pepper highly appreciated and thank u so much for ur time and U.V. and thank you my friend @barrydutton for doing this. Heart out for the appreciation.

I'm doing my post now to help Dian with this, as I promised!!!

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Thank so much and to all warm hearted steemians. Now more than ever I appreciated more the steemians community. It's like a second family all though far and strange people but u can feel their sincere sympathy. Thank you all.

One of wonderful person I've known here.

Dian --- I messaged you by DM a few mins ago on Steemit.Chat --- please have a look when you can.

And check down your blog post page too.

(:

Sorry I was not able to reply your message my friend. I was so busy and also sick. By the way, I have problem with the new steemitchat. I could not see anything, its black all around. How about discord?

Discord is a PITA. LOL

I just wanted to check on you and so glad some of the whales have really come thru for you that I sent your way, on your posts, even older ones if you check.

(:

Hi my friend yea they are and they keep mentioning ur name for me to thank too. Your such a blessing to others my friends and blessing also will follow you. Dropping here to have a time to thank u and rplying some. Feeling a little bit ok now from my flu. God bless u more my friend. Thank u.

Please keep in touch.

If you want me to write my own post for you on this to help you and donate the liquid rewards to you, LMK and I will do it when this post of yours clears the feeds.

I am honestly glad this worked out and some of my people here helped you in a big way.

(:

Take care of yourself and family my friend.

God Bless You and Be With You and Yours
with Love and Sympathy,
b.a.

Thank so much and to all warm hearted steemians. Now more than ever I appreciated more the steemians community. It's like a second family all though far and strange people but u can feel their sincere sympathy. Thank you all.

I wish I had the power to adjust my upvote but it is all I can give. Condolences to your family.

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100% Upvote + Resteem!! Good luck my friend!

Thank u so much. God bless.

You are welcome :) - Hope that I could help.

You do already thank u.

May God give you the Strength for You and Your Family to Heal during this difficult time. I wish you Peace to bring you Comfort, Courage to face the days ahead & loving Memories to forever hold in your Heart!! God Bless You & Your Family @dianargenti

Thank you so much to your inspiring comments, though father is already senior but if only he wasn't fall he can make it more than this aged. Appreciated much.

Im sorry for your loss and wish you and yours the best. Upvoted and resteemed. Going to send some litecoin to you as well.

Thank so much for kind heart.

condolences.. god bless your family

Absolutely great cause, 100% upvoting this. Maybe you could do crowdfunding too??

Thank you. What is crowdfunding?

Its called online fundraising there are many platforms based around the world

Prayers are with you, your family, and of course your father.

I can't send much but I hope it helps.

This post has received a 13.33 % upvote from @lovejuice thanks to: @abh12345. They have officially sprayed their dank amps all over your post rewards. GOOD TIMES! Vote for Aggroed!

Thanks lovejuice

Upvoted and resteemed.

Thank you. Appreciated

Hi Diana,

If you post your bitcoin, ethereum, litecoin address, the cryptocurrency community and others will be able to donate as well.

There are many articles on cryptocurrency here on steemit.

Best of luck if you need help... reach out.

Thanks for the advice. Already edited my post and gave my bitcoin wallet address.

Fantastic! Crypto is the future.

Best of luck. 👍💎🎣🐴🏆

Other addresses will make more sense.

BTC is forking in a few hours and nobody is touching their BTC for the most part and in some cases, they cannot -- the exchanges and some wallets will not let people access it for a day / day and a half or 2.

also --- BTC is currently way too expensive to send / transact with.

Post some other coins, like others have suggested. Even if you do not have a wallet offline -- post your exchange based wallets for 5 or 6 coins my friend.

Thank you Barry. I have added 2 coins addresses, Eth and LTC

Surprise... recheck balance for btc and ltc.

I see a typo... the correct spelling is Ethereum

Best of luck

Thank you so much. It means a lot to me.

What a great cause!!! This is what makes Steemit GREAT!!! God Bless you dianargenti and your family..Steemit, love how you all step up for a wonderful family in need. SUNSHINE247

Thank you sunshine. I would appreciate more if you can resteem it also.

Resteemed :)

Tnx it's big help

Hi @dianargenti. Sorry to hear of your loss and please stay strong. Prayers from all of us.

It's not much... But i know it helps...

Thanks. Its the hearts that counts.

Sending you and your family a lot of love and some SBD. Take care

Thank so much and to all warm hearted steemians. Now more than ever I appreciated more the steemians community. It's like a second family all though far and strange people but u can feel their sincere sympathy. Thank you all.

sorry for your loss, your papa is in heaven now watching over your family.

Thank so much and to all warm hearted steemians. Now more than ever I appreciated more the steemians community. It's like a second family all though far and strange people but u can feel their sincere sympathy. Thank you all.

Before he go to sleep even though he voices won't come out clearly he asked my mother for his shoes, and clothes and though mama knew it's the time he sleeps so we'll without any sound ); mother and him never been separate ever before where ever Papa goes and went mama is also there. We know it's so hard for her but I keep saying don't be so sad as u see Papa won't suffer anymore look at him he rest peacefully coz u also assured him that you will be okey.

Thank you @themevlog

your mom will need you more than ever, she's probably extremely lonely without him.....be with her.

We do coz with their 78 years living together it's just now they separated with each other. Thank u.

Beautiful family god bless

I can help you with a resteem.

added $79.50. you can thank @barrydutton.

Thank you so much @tamim

So sorry for your loss. :(

I up voted to help raise money for you and your family...I wish I could do more for you but I'm not in a position financially at this time. :(

It's ok @frostyamber it's the support and heart of symphathy counts. Thank u.

You're welcome. :D

My sincere condolences. Upvoted and resteemed.

Thank u much.

I just put thru a donation anyone mind giving me a booster ?

I am sorry to hear this. Upvoted. All the best!

Thank u so much

May he rest in peace.

Probably yes he is, he looks peacefully sleeping. Tnx.

Upvoted and sent the @treeplanter booster bot with some rewards.

My sympathy :(

Appreciated heartily thanks for the support @alexvan

This is so sad...so sorry for your lost.

I am so sorry to learn of your loss today @dianargenti.
I wish I could take the pain away for you and your family.

Thanks you so much @rebeccaryan

It was the least I could do @dianargenti. I found you through Barry Dutton's post. Then, I went to your blog, and realized that you and I started on Steemit a month apart. Anyone who has stuck it out on this platform for almost a year or more, has a very strong character. I saw that in you and wanted to help. Losing a parent is very hard and a huge loss. I am so sorry.
How far off are you from reaching your $800 goal?

Ooh @rebeccaryan thank u coming and tnx to my friend @barrydutton it's way too long still for $400 and I don't know if I can make it. Thank you so much for your support, yes indeed I don't want to see him inside I just keep my tears and won't cry out loud I don't want my mama to see for she will cry and cry too I keep it and let it fall silently. It's more hard for my mama they been together and never been away from each other but now I don't know how my mom will handle this they will be separated forever.

@dianargenti, I have upvoted your comment to give you as many SBD as I can.
I really feel for your family and I have shared your story with others and they have upvoted you too.
It's so sad when couples are separated this way. I am thinking of you and your family.

I don't know how to thank u you at @rebeccaryan your such a wonderful person one of a kind here in the community. Soon everything will be fine it's my mama who we must look up too we know she's in pain much.

So sorry for you loss to you and your family :/ Wish I could do more than offer my condolences but im new around here. God bless.

It's okey, your thoughts is highly appreciated. Thank u so much.

I am so sorry to hear of your father's death. My father died 7 years ago and I still miss him every day. I was blessed to be able to help him with his final arrangements according to his wishes. I intend to make a donation as soon as the exchanges open the Bitcoin deposit/withdrawal options again. Prayers to you and your family.

Your a good soul @merej99 yes indeed if i see him now, there lying I felt empty and missed him already, and I know it's more hard in my mothers part. Thank u so much for the kindness.

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So sorry for your loss

Upvoted and Resteemed. I was going to give you my minnow support vote but someone already did. Hope things get better for you!

Thank u, hopefully yes I do hope.

My deep condolence to your family @dianargenti. I have teary eyes for the love of our fellow steemians. Upvoted and resteemed.

Thank u for being a warm hearted. God bless.

resteemed and upvoted 100%
I'm so sorry you lost your father, may you and your family be surrounded in love and may you easily earn all the money you need for all of his expenses and more!

Thank u so much for the support, it's either I can reach it or not i guess it doesn't matter as long as I know steemians maybe not all are supportive and not just by u.v but also emotionally. Thank u.

Thank you for reaching out and asking for help, because we are here to support you. Keeping you and your family in my heart.

Thank u, ur such a good steemians too.

I cant do nothing ate diang...but to resteem...condolence teh..God Bless ninyu dra!

Ok r, salamat.

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