Infidelity. I was with a man who looks at everything on skirt. At first when we met he was charming and adorable and he made me laugh so much I fell in love with him. Through the years while we were together I discovered he was in the habit of cheating and lying. Once I saw different pictures of naked women on his phone, other times his conversations with them. He was such a good liar but not good at covering his tracts.

I knew he was cheating but I never got the strength to leave him. I loved him so much. I felt I have invested time, money and energy and shouldn't let another woman come in and reap where she didn't sow. I saw myself as the rightful owner of the vineyard even though it was producing unhealthy fruits and soured juice, I believed he would change, of cos he kept promising to change. Once he got a lady pregnant and promised to fix it by getting her to terminate it.

Although I never supported that but I felt maybe this time he would change for real not until another pregnant woman came to fight me in his house. At this time I knew that I was never gonna have peace of mind if I eventually marry him and i was going to because he had proposed some weeks back so it was a shock finding out he is still cheating even with marriage plans on the way.

I had to take the easy way out which was a break up and turns deaf ear to all his please. Infidelity is bad and it destroys relationships. Do not look at how much time or money or effort you have put in, if a man or woman cares enough to cheat on you, they will never respect you. Besides walk away and save yourself before you get infected by the serial cheat. It's heart breaking and hurts real bad but your mental and physical health is worth more than one person who can't control his or her libido.