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RE: Musing Posts

We have try to forget, Maybe there's nothing more painful than to forget the first love. This is not an ordinary love. We think would live the rest of life. We are planning for the future, to study and live together. We've got a lot of jokes and memories of the time that has passed. Now that everything is over, we fear it later couldn't find someone who could replace them, or maybe we just afraid will not be happy with others. There is no miracle drug to forget first love besides hand it at a time and focus on our own lives.

Be aware that we have to pass through a phase in which we are not able to forget the former. Initially it will be so painful until we feel will not be able to do it, even just to start taking steps, and there may also be a profound belief that both of us will eventually get back together. Hope and denial from the inside of this will last for some time but a but later we will finally realize that you actually don't want to come back with this person. After knowing it, we will be able to easily move on to the next step.

Disconnect all communication with your ex. Cruel, but this is the only way that could be successful. We might feel lost best friends we have, the only people who really understand us. May initially be painful, but eventually it will feel better. We can't keep Remain friends while trying to forget.