I would say steemit shows the real me to a extent. I believe social media does that to most people.
There's that 'freeness' it gives when you know you are on a faceless or somewhat faceless platform. It puts you at ease and you can be more of yourself.
As to being happy with the content I see on there? I would say: live and let live. I feel happy being myself and I'm sure others do too, hence their content.
It would be somewhat hypocritical of me in my opinion, to expect people to give me a pass and accept my content but to go right ahead and judge others.
We, afterall, have the right to upvote or ignore content on the platform. I may not like certain content, but I wouldn't necessarily judge the creators too strongly.