But it does say that wives should submit to their husbands. And that males are the leader of the household. So there's that. You know, women should do the bidding of men...
Show me how the good things done in the name of religion outweigh the numerous massacres that have taken place in the name of religion. In my opinion, no amount of good can outweigh the killing of thousands of people.
And the sinfulness of man controlling man? Is that your way of hand balling the blame? If people are using religion as motivation to kill others then that's what it is. It's religion inspiring the killing of your fellow man.
I think you need to study this more deeply.