Excellent post! You've said it all. But I think your claim of the act being prevalent among guys from the black race may not be entirely true. A man is a man irrespective of the geographical location and his mentality is the same every where.
I believe your suggestions as to how to become responsible and better is valid if followed religiously.
Thanks once more for the piece. By the way I love that picture of Sigmund Freud.
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lols, funny you, you are right dear, but africa is getting out of hand, we just can't focus because our first thought is woman, sex,pleasure before even thinking of our necessity