I have seen people given up over matters and become victims of circumstances. I have seen how inability to excercise perseverance has led people into regrettable and deplorable situations.
It is not over until it's over, you don't have to conclude yet. Some have concluded that is over for them yo make it in life, some conclude that is too late to bear children of their own while others conclude that is not possible for them to meet up with the pace of their fellow.
No matter what is your case today, don't conclude yet because it is not over. In as much as you are alive, you can meet up. You can carry your baby and you can do what others Are doing. Don't give up on your self.
Yours sincerely, @oreofe360