Lol, you are such an interesting writer, i know that heatvision so much,my most personal experiences had to be with my ex-girlfriend, its almost like hell whenever she gives it to me, anytime i try to ignore it, i could actually feel them on my face, burning into my skin, but as a man now, mans never hot, funny thing is she said i do the same, and it had worse effect on her...lol...i think its more than an Afro psychological thing to be honest as well, it is Human centric, i just think Africans have
mastered it more, this is a very interesting post because whilst i'm trying to reply, crazy experiences i've had are flooding into my head, i would be writing an epistle if i'm to write them all, thanks for sharing this with us.
I think my lesson lies in understanding whom you're dealing with first, so your manner of approach will be tailored to suit, because in getting what you want, you can be surprised to see what might just work.
Cheers mate