"There are no regrets in life, just lessons."- Jennifer Aniston.
It seems the human node is programmed to understand how to regret for every little event that befalls us instead of trying to learn from it.
The age of understanding always manages to elude many because, they never get matured enough to get themselves prepared for change and how best to accept it.
When we campaign for change, it comes for real but we fail to see it because, we automatically have a programmed mindset that tells us that, change must be good.
We most often count our loses instead of our blessing and regret for those little pitfalls we have experienced instead of appreciating the lessons.
I am learning everyday to be first grateful for failing whenever it comes so I can learn those lessons embedded therein. The best practical approach which I have come to see as being effective for living a stress free life daily, is to expect the fails and be smart enough to take advantage of the learning curves tailored around it.
No one should fail; No one should be in pain, and I strongly believe that, everyone should win and be happy... but then, life isn't about the positives alone.
In life, the positives and negatives make it what it is, a place to live. I strongly believe that, life is a bed of roses because without the thorns, there will be no roses.
So whenever life comes so brash and unfair to you, simply pick up your writing pad and pen, drop the regrets and learn the lessons.
well said my friend :)
regrets can not solve anythings....keep changing to get improve :)
This is brilliant sir. Life goes both ways. We mostly want to pick the good parts and feel hard done by when the bad moment comes. The good moments motivates us, the bad ones humble us, and the balance is needed so we won't get ahead of ourselves. You have said this perfectly sir.
Life goes on and this is irrespective of the good and bad days. There are no evil days as far as life itself is concerned. Living like it is the best day yet, will help us make well deserved decisions.
Stay awesome!
This is good and deep. Regardless of the good and bad days, life will still go on. We should always approach life knowing each day is the best...and whatever happens, we should pick the lessons and move on.
Thanks again sir.
we should live our today in such a way that we can create a better future for our next generations......first thing is to controll pollution...what u think ?
We should do whatever it takes to preserve our world because it is up to us to make that happen. Pollution is a major menace in the world today and every fight against it will help us see it being drastically reduced.
Stay awesome!
We should always expect the good but prepare for the worse too.
No matter the condition, it can always get better from where it is.
We must bear in mind that, the good and bad are interconnected.
Stay awesome!
Pretty sure...
@ejemai you've been very motivative and emotional these few days.
I really wish every reader gets to resteem this very post,the world should read this so we can all learn the lesson fast and move on,especially my complaining friend @zeuz .
@zeuz this post is for you, come and read it.
Thanks for reading and also recommending to a friend. The mind is filled with stories yet untold and even if we have 1000 years to live, we will never truly be able to tell it all.
Stay awesome!
You are right that there are no regrets in life because everyone has a choice to make and such choice will determine who one will be in life whether positive or negative.
The regrets which is mostly celebrated through grumblings and complaints should be relegated to the background and thanksgiving embraced.
Stay awesome!
I strongly agree with you, have been through these journey of roses and thorns, and have learnt my lesson, the only path I didn't do is;
I'll do just these by writing my story on steemit, I hope you get to read it,cos you inspired it.
@ejemai thank you for the post.
@youngpreacher thanks for the mention
I pray my story helps to make the world a better place.
Thank you @zeus for finding this article useful. I am an advocate for helping the world strive profitably and that means that no matter how terrible it gets, we will never stop putting in work.
Stay awesome!
I love your work's...
I took about and hour to read your work's
steem war against poverty;
Healing the world;
I feel blessed series.
Truly you are bless, thank you for all your help and support.
One if our problem in life is defense mechanism (relating our failure to others) rather than to accept it and move on with life.
As humans, we always seek where the blame should be laid and who should be blamed. When we know what it is we are doing, we will be able to get a clear foothold.
Stay awesome!
We have to learn from every outcome that we do in life so that we can improve on things that we do @ejemai
Living is learning and learning is what makes the ideal life. The lessons learnt helps us make adjustments for improvements that will worth living for. Stay awesome!
I love this write-up mehn... And I strongly appreciate you for this.... It's make me come to realize that life is a bed of roses because without the thorn, there'll be no roses.... Thanks alot..
Thanks a lot and I appreciate you too for taking time out to stop and read this. Stay awesome!
Oh that's Jennifer who said that ?
I would have a lot of regret being dumped by Brad Pitt :D
Anyway.. I agree... only life lessons... :)
Great reminder @ejemai. Everybody wants to win and yet most people are afraid of failing, and wants to stay in their safe zone. When we look back into our journey through life, we'd find that we made the most breakthroughs when we consciously made an effort to take the leap and leave our comfort zones.
The words of our fathers are words of wisdom. The wise hear them and run with them. I run with these words @ejemai. You are awesome.